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She has never explicitly told me this, but I have a feeling she wonders why she can't find a man. Maybe if she worked to improve herself she would have a boyfriend? Meanwhile she looks down on me and calls me a "player" because I flirt a lot with women. I'm in no position to tell her to get on a treadmill, but its too bad she doesn't, because her face isn't half bad.
She has never explicitly told me this, but I have a feeling she wonders why she can't find a man. Maybe if she worked to improve herself she would have a boyfriend? Meanwhile she looks down on me and calls me a "player" because I flirt a lot with women. I'm in no position to tell her to get on a treadmill, but its too bad she doesn't, because her face isn't half bad.
If she wants help, advice or an opinion from you or anyone else she will ask for it.
Until then leave her alone and quit talking about her to random strangers on a public forum unless you show her your post.
That way she is aware that you are "concerned about her health" not just her physical attributes with her "not half bad" face and all.
because she hasn't asked for my advice, and i don't think it's my place. i personally don't have a problem with doing so, but its not pc, and I don't think she'd appreciate it.
If she wants help, advice or an opinion from you or anyone else she will ask for it.
Until then leave her alone and quit talking about her to random strangers on a public forum unless you show her your post.
That way she is aware that you are "concerned about her health" not just her physical attributes with her "not half bad" face and all.
i could be talking about anyone. hell, i could be talking about my mother and she could be single. i've given no identifiers here, aside from the fact that she is an obese woman. no name, age, picture or city.
From your post it sounds like you're a guy, which IMO might help you out with this some as she will hopefully listen to you. Anyway that would be the logical thing to do. I'm going to take a woman's advice on how to attract women more seriously than another man's advice.
Just get her to ask why she can't get a date. Then once she's asked you can answer her question. I'm not really a fan of manipulation like that but it really is for her own sake in more ways than one. You can also tell her how it will be better for her health.
Maybe when she brings up your dating you can just say something like "you know just looking for someone I really enjoy being with" and talk about how you date people because you enjoy it and presumably hope that you will find some cool lady at some point. I don't know her but I'm guessing if you do that a few times she may just start complaining about how guys don't like her.
Lets all hope she realizes this is something she can take control of and she's not the type to blame it on something/someone.
Alternatively you can just keep your nose in your own business. Kind of depends how much you want to help her.
From your post it sounds like you're a guy, which IMO might help you out with this some as she will hopefully listen to you. Anyway that would be the logical thing to do. I'm going to take a woman's advice on how to attract women more seriously than another man's advice.
Just get her to ask why she can't get a date. Then once she's asked you can answer her question. I'm not really a fan of manipulation like that but it really is for her own sake in more ways than one. You can also tell her how it will be better for her health.
Maybe when she brings up your dating you can just say something like "you know just looking for someone I really enjoy being with" and talk about how you date people because you enjoy it and presumably hope that you will find some cool lady at some point. I don't know her but I'm guessing if you do that a few times she may just start complaining about how guys don't like her.
Lets all hope she realizes this is something she can take control of and she's not the type to blame it on something/someone.
Alternatively you can just keep your nose in your own business. Kind of depends how much you want to help her.
Good post, thanks.
It's just lame when she says I'm a player and stuff, almost sounds like she's jealous.
She doesn't need you to tell her she's overweight. I'm sure she already knows.
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