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This year has been crazy for me. Had an affair with a married man for 4 months, but he went back to his family. Since July it has been a very sad time for me. But he kept no contact, so no more drama there.
At the end of the summer I went to see astrologist and she kinda told me to contact one guy I had met 5 years ago /who lived abroad all those years, but this year moved back/. During these years there has always been just sex...I can say I like him as well but we never talked about getting into relationship as he lived abroad. We just had great time every time we met.
So the astrologist told me he is a good man bla bla and advised to contact him. Eventually I added him on Facebook, he contacted me afterwards and after one month we met up for coffee which ended with sex. AGAIN. This time I enjoyed his company/talk very much. But I kinda felt that at the end it was just for sex for him.
It was two weeks ago and he had contacted me only twic e with some really useless texts...haven't asked how I was or anything personal.
Plus I hate to see his activities on Facebook...all those comments and likes for other women.
SO I have decided to ignore him if he tries to contact me again /which would probably would be just to have sex/. I have unsubscribed from his updates on Facebook...that's for start
But I'm afraid I could break, so do you have some advise how to say no to him, forget about him?!
THANKS.
You avoid having any kind of a relationship with a man who just wants sex by saying no, and sticking with it. When you stoop to having an affair with a married man, you will settle for almost anything. Why not give him what he wants and walk away with a smile on your face?
What does your astrologist tell you to do about this?
Remember, Venus is in retrograde this week and Mars in in the house of Saturn and refuses to leave.
1) Don't bother with married men because sex is likely all you'll get out of that 2) Don't reconnect with someone whose only real relationship dynamic with you has been Mod cut: Inappropriate language. 3) Stop jumping into bed with guys if you're not open to the possibility of sex being where it ends 4) Ask the astrologist how her love significant other is doing.
That or try the Tarot card thing. Something's gotta work, right?
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