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Old 10-15-2013, 12:21 PM
 
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An average young attractive girl, would rather be top10-20% guys Wednesday "maybe" option than the other 80% guys only woman. Top 10-20% of guys dont have enough nights in a week to date as many, attractive women as they please, openly might I add, while the reminder 80-90% of single guys cant score a date to save their life.
I guess this is another point I was kind of trying to get at with my original post. It seems like girls have this "there's lot of other guys out there" mentality on the first few dates.

 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:24 PM
 
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I was wrong anyway.

He said he rejects a woman for every woman that rejects him.

So, I agree, he's a hypocrite.
Well, I don't know if it's exactly 50/50, but I definitely don't get rejected by 250 women while rejecting no women myself. I'd say about I reject 20%, 60% reject me, then the other 20% aren't really rejections either way but more of just fluke-ish events that prevent us from getting together.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:34 PM
 
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Well, I don't know if it's exactly 50/50, but I definitely don't get rejected by 250 women while rejecting no women myself. I'd say about I reject 20%, 60% reject me, then the other 20% aren't really rejections either way but more of just fluke-ish events that prevent us from getting together.
Then, IMHO, you don't have much to complain about. Since men do have to approach 1 to 3 is actually a very good ratio. I'd kill for that ratio.

Who cares when they reject? The earlier the better. If they reject you early, you had no chance in this lifetime anyway.

Just keep at it.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Broward County Florida
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Yes, by that point I think they'd realize that they were over exaggerating about whatever minor flaw scared them away at first and we'd be in a happy relationship.
Wow. Wow. How do you know they were exaggerating? How do you know you only have minor flaws?

I think I know what your problem is ..
You are for a lonely ride, kid.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:44 PM
 
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Yeah I'm sure she would be delighted to read his disgustingly misogynist posts and see what a winner she hooked up with. Such blatant gender bashing.
Truth has nothing to do with misogyny or misandry. Its just plain truth. Its how things are, not only to me but to every other human being.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:49 PM
 
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And I don't think you can say the same thing about guys. This only pertains to girls.

As a guy who has been trying to get a girlfriend for about ten years now with no luck, I think what has annoyed me the most is that girls lose interest way too easily at first. They find a better guy or things didn't go on the first few dates as they expected or for some other pedantic reason.

Any other guys frustrated with this?
What planet do you live on that gives you any right to dictate whether girls stick around you? Utterly self absorbed idiocy. You probably bore the crap out of them with your inflated sense of entitlement.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:51 PM
 
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I guess this is another point I was kind of trying to get at with my original post. It seems like girls have this "there's lot of other guys out there" mentality on the first few dates.
Guy. You just don't get it. You are desperate so would want women to stay with you even if out of sympathy for you. C'Mon, be man.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:51 PM
 
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Truth has nothing to do with misogyny or misandry. Its just plain truth. Its how things are, not only to me but to every other human being.
Just because you babble about it constantly does not make it truth. And for your reputations sake you may want to find a different source of "truth" other than OKC. It makes you look absurd.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:52 PM
 
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Or his girlfriend. I'm sure she'd be thrilled to find out how little he thinks of women!
I believe she (wisely) dumped him.
 
Old 10-15-2013, 12:53 PM
 
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"...Us women are more egocentric and narcissistic than we ever used to be, according to extensive research by two leading psychologists. More of us have huge expectations of ourselves, our lives and everyone in them. We think the universe resolves around us, with a deluded sense of our own fabulousness, and believe we are cleverer, more talented and more attractive than we actually are. We have trouble accepting criticism and extending empathy because we are so preoccupied with ourselves...."

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