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Old 10-15-2013, 02:20 PM
 
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I live in the Midwest and I'm a college student. It seems as if every woman is taken here, and the women aren't very nice at all. Have you ever had this problem before?
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:24 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Not the same but different problem.

I live in the Mexican hood and I am TALL and WHITE. Don't fit in at all. No problem for me, but sucks when it comes to finding a bf.

Everybody at my age seems to be married with tons of kids and a foot shorter than me. Don't get me wrong, I CHOSE to live here and like it.
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:25 PM
 
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It has nothing at all to do with you, right?
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:30 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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No, especially not in the Midwest.
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:30 PM
 
Location: The Emerald City
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Yep. Being a 30s bachelor that has no desire to have kids, my home town in Montana tended to have more traditional mindset women that want families and being in a sub 60k city also didn't help.

Now im surrounded by a few million people with more career and liberal minded women who don't want kids either, so my dating chances have increased dramatically.

As the old fisherman saying goes, if you wanna make catches, you gotta go where the fish are
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:32 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Cant say I ever had that problem.
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:35 PM
 
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I think for the most part, if you are successful dating, logistics don't help/hurt too much.

If you are in college and everyone is together, you are at a very small university, or not looking in the correct areas.

College is pretty much a non-stop meet market in most state schools, and even in some smaller schools.

Everyone in your school cant really already be in a relationship. You most likely arent interested in the single ones, or you arent seeing them.
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:42 PM
 
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It has nothing at all to do with you, right?
Part of it does have to do with me. I'm shy, that doesn't help either.
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:43 PM
 
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I live in the introvert Capital of america so it is not easy to date.
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Old 10-15-2013, 02:44 PM
 
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I think for the most part, if you are successful dating, logistics don't help/hurt too much.

If you are in college and everyone is together, you are at a very small university, or not looking in the correct areas.

College is pretty much a non-stop meet market in most state schools, and even in some smaller schools.

Everyone in your school cant really already be in a relationship. You most likely arent interested in the single ones, or you arent seeing them.
I go to a community college now. I came back home because my aunt got sick.
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