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Old 10-15-2013, 08:43 PM
 
Location: Baltimore / Montgomery County, MD
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So I have a fantasy of my woman having sex with another man, the thought turns me on.
But I cant help but to feel like something is wrong with me.
I told her how I felt and although she isnt interested in screwing other guys,
she agreed to try this at least once.

Has anyone else been or known someone in a situation like this?
What was the outcome?
Is it better to do this with someone known personally or a stranger?


Im confident with myself sexually and see no guy as a threat.
I just feel crazy for having such fantasy like this.
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:18 PM
 
Location: HI, U.S.A.
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So I have a fantasy of my woman having sex with another man, the thought turns me on.
But I cant help but to feel like something is wrong with me.
I told her how I felt and although she isnt interested in screwing other guys,
she agreed to try this at least once.

Has anyone else been or known someone in a situation like this?
What was the outcome?
Is it better to do this with someone known personally or a stranger?


Im confident with myself sexually and see no guy as a threat.
I just feel crazy for having such fantasy like this.
I've seen or heard of this fantasy many times before, I don't think you are the only who wants or at least thinks about some thing like this.~

I have a question though, have you ever thought it possible that you or your lover or both of you of loving more than 1 person at a time?~

I have this same desire as you, but I do not separate my emotions from my body so no sex without love for me and I also don't see any reason to try to "fight" any feelings of love I might feel for more than one person at the same time.~ ^_^

This is why I only date people who are at least open to the idea of loving more than person at the same time in every way regardless of every thing even sex (like male or female).~ ^_^
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:28 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Mahatma X View Post
So I have a fantasy of my woman having sex with another man, the thought turns me on.
But I cant help but to feel like something is wrong with me.
I told her how I felt and although she isnt interested in screwing other guys,
she agreed to try this at least once.

Has anyone else been or known someone in a situation like this?
What was the outcome?
Is it better to do this with someone known personally or a stranger?


Im confident with myself sexually and see no guy as a threat.
I just feel crazy for having such fantasy like this.
It's a form of self-degradation. It isn't going to end well. Probably you'll either end up angry afterwards or else you'll get all turned on and want her to keep doing it.
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:31 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Originally Posted by Mahatma X View Post
So I have a fantasy of my woman having sex with another man, the thought turns me on.
But I cant help but to feel like something is wrong with me.
I told her how I felt and although she isnt interested in screwing other guys,
she agreed to try this at least once.

Has anyone else been or known someone in a situation like this?
What was the outcome?
Is it better to do this with someone known personally or a stranger?


Im confident with myself sexually and see no guy as a threat.
I just feel crazy for having such fantasy like this.
It's not an uncommon fantasy, so you aren't totally "weird" or "out there".

But like most fantasies, the reality usually never measures up.

I suggest you just enjoy the fantasy and leave it at that.
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:42 PM
 
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You're post has been reported for trolling.~ ^_^

As to every one else, I don't think this fantasy is a horrible idea as long as every one is ok with it and willing to do it.~

The details are up to the individuals involved.~
Like she mentioned she is not interested in screwing other guys?

It's your not you're.
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:44 PM
 
Location: HI, U.S.A.
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Like she mentioned she is not interested in screwing other guys?

It's your not you're.
Ugh, please read his post entirely before you respond.~

He said she was willing to try it at least once.~
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:47 PM
 
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Ugh, please read his post entirely before you respond.~

He said she was willing to try it at least once.~
After he coerced her into his fantasy. Read between the lines before getting worked up. It's only an anonymous message board. It's okay to have a difference of opinion.
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Old 10-15-2013, 09:56 PM
 
Location: HI, U.S.A.
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After he coerced her into his fantasy. Read between the lines before getting worked up. It's only an anonymous message board. It's okay to have a difference of opinion.
"Reading between the lines" is asking me to jump to a conclusion that has not been firmly established yet and thus you are asking me to "assume" something.~

I refuse.~

I have said it before and I will say it again, "Assumption leads to nothing but trouble and it is THE DEATH OF RELATIONSHIPS!"

I'm not against difference of opinion, but that doesn't mean I'm going to make up things to present as the "truth" that he didn't say.~
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Old 10-15-2013, 10:09 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I knew a couple that actually did it; they both regretted doing it, especially him.

Personally, I'm very selfish when it comes to sharing the woman I love. FWB/FB I could care less.
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Old 10-15-2013, 11:01 PM
 
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If you want to find out more about what it's like IRL (or find porn) it's called 'cuckholding'.
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