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Old 10-18-2013, 09:04 AM
 
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Using your logic does this mean that you think if a man has to ask "if size matters" that he could stand to gain a few inches?
Brilliant!
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Old 10-18-2013, 09:12 AM
 
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Yes, there is such a thing as being too truthful.
I also think there is such a thing as being too validating (the untruthful kind) to the point where it's actually hurting someone.
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Old 10-18-2013, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Using your logic does this mean that you think if a man has to ask "if size matters" that he could stand to gain a few inches?
Yeah I guess, but a man can't grow a longer penis, a woman who is fat can do something about her weight instead of whining and trying to manipulate her husband.
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Old 10-18-2013, 09:56 AM
 
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Yeah I guess, but a man can't grow a longer penis, a woman who is fat can do something about her weight instead of whining and trying to manipulate her husband.
Not true at all, there are medical procedures that can be done to "enhance" one's manhood it however does not increase the amount of brain cells in his big head.
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Old 10-18-2013, 10:07 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Not true at all, there are medical procedures that can be done to "enhance" one's manhood it however does not increase the amount of brain cells in his big head.
Well first of all that's false, second of all I'm not sure what you keep blabbering on about has to do with the OP question besides you hate men I guess. But shame on me for getting hooked into a troll post.

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Old 10-18-2013, 10:11 AM
 
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So 14Bricks, is that a no, you don't want a woman to tell you that yours is too small?
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Old 10-18-2013, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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So 14Bricks, is that a no, you don't want a woman to tell you that yours is too small?

Never had any complaints. Only guys who have small penises worry about or ask does size matter.
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Old 10-18-2013, 10:20 AM
 
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Today my bf and I were talking about something and I gave him my honest opinion (as I always do). He proceeded to tell me that a little white lie about some things occasionally, wouldn't kill me.

What does everyone think about being too truthful all the time in a relationship??

Is there room for the occasional white lie to keep everyone happy?

There are ways of expressing a dissenting or negative opinion without being offensive.

"Do you like this?"

"Hmm, I like the other one better/I'm not crazy about it/I can't decide, so I'd err on the side of caution with that, myself." Or, "You're asking me? I don't know anything about that, so I really can't give you a decent opinion on it." Or even just a "Wellllll..." with a . That will work better than, "No, that's ugly/gross/awful/stupid."
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Old 10-18-2013, 10:45 AM
 
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"Does this dress make me look fat?"

I'm gonna say white lies have their place. lol
Or diversionary tactics...

Q: "Does this dress make me look fat?"
A: *sudden shocked look* "I CAN'T FEEL MY SPLEEN!!!"

Alternate:

*tosses credit card*
"Honey, someone at the department store may be a better judge than me. I can't make fashion judgement calls like that. Look at me. My shirt is inside-out and I somehow managed to have 3 socks on one foot, and I don't even know why I left it that way."

(This tactic will require you to always be ready by always having 3 socks on one foot and an inside-out shirt. But it is well worth it.)

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Old 10-18-2013, 01:57 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Saw this online somewhere ...

Q: "Does this dress make me look fat?"
A: "Honey, if it does, it's the dress' problem."
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