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Lets face the facts guys. Women only would really want men in general if we just had chocolate covered d1cks that ejaculated diamonds, the rest is meaningless.
I can tell you from experience while it does make for a interesting party trick but not that many woman are interested.
It sounds fantastic on paper but then human anatomy comes in and ruins the dream.
The only shaming I've experienced happens within the confines of this forum only.
yup, which should tell you a little about demographics of CDR posters.
on a related note, i often play this 20Questions game with women who i am getting to know where you technically have answer truthfully the questions asked. when i ask "when's the last time you had sex", rarely is it longer than "a couple of weeks ago", and these are young single women too so i'm sure if i ask them later in the year, the answer will be he same. the other day i asked one "how many sex partners have you had", she said 7 and was 21yo, which is unusual because i always get the magically consistent answer of <5.
Lets face the facts guys. Women only would really want men in general if we just had chocolate covered d1cks that ejaculated diamonds, the rest is meaningless.
That sounds like a good way to get a bleeding cervix and a yeast infection.
I think many guys would care more than they want to admit, although I do not think that would be all guys in general.
This is probably quite more accurate then people realize.
Also, I would add that a guy's dating ability affects the disappointment or lack there of. If a guy who easily dates gets pumped and dumped, he knows he can get back out there and in no time he can get intimate again.
But guys that struggle to date, will probably get/be quite frustrated to be pumped and dumped. Of course in the moment, he will have fun but once the realization that weeks, months, or even years may go by before another women even entertains the idea to date him, being pumped and dumped may upset him.
Simply put, a man who dates a lot will most likely care the least, and the guys that struggle to date will care the most at an emotional level anyway. If you put egos in the equation, things change a bit, but I kind of separate ego from emotion.
Simply put, a man who dates a lot will most likely care the least, and the guys that struggle to date will care the most at an emotional level anyway. If you put egos in the equation, things change a bit, but I kind of separate ego from emotion.
true. there is always a little disappointment and hurt feelings involved but no better way to get over it than to find the next flame and become immersed in yet again another attraction buzz. i'm also more and more comfortable just saying (and admitting) that "hey some women like my look, others dont, i cant be too bugged about cuz i feel the same about some women. can't take it too personal."
for example, i had a brief date/meetup last sunday with a cute 26yo that ended up being like 25lbs heavier than her pics when i met her. it was a good talking to her but i didn't have that much physical attraction for her. she texted me yesterday and wants to hang out at my place this weekend to "take it to the next level". i think she is probably overdue for a bang and i'm her selection, not sure how i want to handle even when this is pretty much a potential fwb or ons situation. but i'm prolly gonna pass cuz i have other better options steaming up. and i know it's going to sting a bit when i do, but i don't think i can even do a charity bang on this one. my mini-me is exercising veto power.
Lets face the facts guys. Women only would really want men in general if we just had chocolate covered d1cks that ejaculated diamonds, the rest is meaningless.
Because we're all materialistic chocoholics who would prostitute ourselves out to get precious gems.
I can always tell who on City-Data doesn't have dates lined up for the weekend. The gender-bashing posts ramp up on Fridays.
I agree, but the age old cliche of "hope for the best, expect the worst" sort of applies. There is nothing wring with a girl hoping to change your mind, but it's your job to make it clear up front that she will have to change your mind. If you've done this and she subsequently fails to change your mind, I maintain you don't have anything to feel guilty about.
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Originally Posted by JaybirdX
That would not be unreasonable at all that is my mind set when going on a date. I mean its one thing to expect it but there is nothing wrong with hoping. The world is not perfect but people at least could be allowed to hope.
I agree with both of you. I should blame God for giving me the worlds nicest and caring mom and sister haha..
I know it's not necessarily a terrible thing, but it's still not that great by any means. Maybe that's why I tend to do well is that unless really deserved theres a bit of an inability to be a total prick. Like I read posts on here of guys just disappearing. I would at least stay on good terms amd always make an effort to make friends. I still have girls from years ago I slept with and hungout with but a handful of times message me randomly to see how things are going etc.
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