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Old 10-21-2013, 06:04 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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A woman bashing thread disguised as "advice".

Just for a change....

Not.

There are no right answers..


but this response is definitely wrong.
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Old 10-21-2013, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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So did you win brownie points or get laid for this thread White Knight?

Don't know, I have a date this week so I think I think I'll print out my OP and show her what I'm made of
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Old 10-21-2013, 06:07 PM
 
Location: Maryland's 6th District.
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I hope people will reflect deeply on what is being said here -- especially women who may interpret it to mean they are without fault; or men who contribute to that perception.

Every "bad" woman was partly formed by men who let her get away with bad behavior. One way to help eradicate the problem is for same men to steel their spines and be more assertive in politely, but firmly, calling those women on any silly games they play; or their efforts to undermine his identity or treat him like a child or the less-important element of a relationship; and to gently deflate unjustifiably large egos.

Women have excelled at shaping men's behavior (often to our detriment). It's time men returned the favor.
Or another way to eradicate the problem is to leave this type of woman behind and get on with your life instead of attempting to "politely" correct her.

If this is the post the OP claims "gets it", than I suppose I misread the OP.
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Old 10-21-2013, 06:11 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Or another way to eradicate the problem is to leave this type of woman behind and get on with your life instead of attempting to "politely" correct her.

If this is the post the OP claims "gets it", than I suppose I misread the OP.

I am saying that people should stop blaming others, move on without worrying and stop holding grudges. I don't think the person you quoted was saying to correct her as much as just call her out and move on.

It's funny how one OP can be taken in so many different ways
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Old 10-21-2013, 06:13 PM
 
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I certainly don't blame women for my lack of success with them. I realize my problems relating to them are mostly my fault or at least understandable since I'm also shallow (i.e. I'm unattractive, as a result I don't attract women that I would be attracted to).


I seem to desire to be/have sex with (i.e. I get horny) and as such I masturbate to a wide variety of porn and play eroge/dating sims for multiple purposes (the story ones & JRPGs for the relationship/intimacy aspect; the dark, sex filled stuff for fetish material). I'd attribute it my "romantic" interactions w. women has halted in middle school, so I do yearn like a hopeless romantic.
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Old 10-21-2013, 06:25 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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In life, there are winners and losers. You get to choose.
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Old 10-21-2013, 06:43 PM
 
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Actually, the thread title is partially true. Making dating problematic for men is pretty much the mission statement of the Illuminati's Women's Auxiliary... that and memes about puppies and kittens (they are responsible for those too).
You are not suppose the to spread the secrets of the female illuminati.
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Old 10-21-2013, 07:20 PM
 
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Whoops, I meant to say all you guys need to stop whining about women and start looking at yourselves. It is not a problem with the women, it's a problem with you.. so figure out what you're doing wrong and stop worrying about the girls who are not nice.

Your life will be a whole lot happier
Speak for yourself
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Old 10-21-2013, 07:26 PM
 
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Best thing anyone can do is live his or her life in such a way that he or she will be happy with or without a partner. Partners are icing, not the whole cake.
I'm happier without a partner. Relationships are draining.
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Old 10-21-2013, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I'm happier without a partner. Relationships are draining.
Nothin wrong with that, I usually prefer dating when I feel like it over being in a relationship also. To each their own, no need to do things how others do
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