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so long story short i was talking to my ex before my current boyfriend and we were trying to workout a friendship he wanted a friendship i just wanted to mess with his head for all the pain he inflicted on me
anyway fast forward to know my ex before my current boyfriend or current ex sent him all of our messages when he was trying to develop a friendship with me and sent him our i.m. convos everything
now the two are friends and talk all the time
how is this even okay? how would you handle this whole situation because i am honestly thinking about cutting them both out of my life i still sleep with one of them
so long story short i was talking to my ex before my current boyfriend and we were trying to workout a friendship he wanted a friendship i just wanted to mess with his head for all the pain he inflicted on me
anyway fast forward to know my ex before my current boyfriend or current ex sent him all of our messages when he was trying to develop a friendship with me and sent him our i.m. convos everything
now the two are friends and talk all the time
how is this even okay? how would you handle this whole situation because i am honestly thinking about cutting them both out of my life i still sleep with one of them
You mess around and sometimes get burned.
So not only are they buds and against you... One is still getting the hue ha. Lol!!
You have been told multiple times that you need therapy. You have serious emotional problems that you need to deal with in order to stop this kind of crap from happening in your life.
You have control over it, but you won't do anything about it.
After cheating on both of them and trying to "mess with" your ex, I'm surprised you feel you have any right to expect anything from them. Move on and work on yourself so that you don't do this again.
so long story short i was talking to my ex before my current boyfriend and we were trying to workout a friendship he wanted a friendship i just wanted to mess with his head for all the pain he inflicted on me
anyway fast forward to know my ex before my current boyfriend or current ex sent him all of our messages when he was trying to develop a friendship with me and sent him our i.m. convos everything
now the two are friends and talk all the time
how is this even okay? how would you handle this whole situation because i am honestly thinking about cutting them both out of my life i still sleep with one of them
There is something seriously wrong with how you are processing the situation around you. People don't exist to to be manipulated and used. Especially people who are you ex's. Your prior ex's friendship is none of your concern. Why do you think you need to "handle this situation"? The idea of putting effort into a faux friendship just to mess with your ex is just a reflection of yourself.
OP, nothing anyone says here in this forum can help you. You need therapy. You've been told that multiple times, in other threads. Please go get help.
^^This
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