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I was talking with one of my close female friends, who is 30, and who just went out with a guy on Monday. She mentioned that he was coming on pretty strong and was also "sexting" her quite a bit. And she was kind of into it.
I've been seeing a girl for a little over two months and it would have never occurred to me to "sext" her. For one, I'm a big advocate of actions speak louder than words. Secondly, I find the concept a little immature and perverse, and something better left for the juvenile crowd. Thirdly, I guess I'd feel weird sending something like that to a woman that's special to me, as if she's my sex object that I get to play with later but talk about it now.
Am I just being prudish about this behavior? If so, when would you start engaging in this type of thing? At this point, I'd feel a little uneasy in doing this sort of thing, because I've not really picked up a vibe from her that she'd be receptive towards it (i.e. she hasn't sent me any provocative texts or even talked about it). Would you find it odd to receive a random text one day from your SO telling you that s/he wants to do XYZ dirty things to you?
If I had a committed partner who liked that sort of thing I wouldn't mind sending him some naughty messages.
I'm also in this boat. If I knew they liked it, I'd be more open to it in order to make them feel good. But it's not just something I'm going to initiate because I like it.
Yeah, its pretty common. Sure. As long as its a two way street it can be fun when you can't see each other and ramp up the energy for the next time you do meet.
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