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Old 10-27-2013, 03:30 PM
 
Location: socal
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Shes not ending it BECAUSE SHE LIKES YOU AND YOUR LEADING HER ON DURRRRRRRRR
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Old 10-27-2013, 03:56 PM
 
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Shes not ending it BECAUSE SHE LIKES YOU AND YOUR LEADING HER ON DURRRRRRRRR

im not leading her on , we,ve had one date , for all I know she has a date with another guy tonite , lots of guys have to settle for women they are not attracted to , it beats being alone
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Old 10-27-2013, 04:03 PM
 
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Yes, there are leagues for both men and women, but it's not only about looks, it's about personality too, and sometimes status.

This doesn't take into account that people sometimes place themselves in the wrong league (i.e. too low or too high) compared to how other people see them.
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Old 10-27-2013, 04:07 PM
 
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Yes, there are leagues for both men and women, but it's not only about looks, it's about personality too, and sometimes status.

This doesn't take into account that people sometimes place themselves in the wrong league (i.e. too low or too high) compared to how other people see them.
DING DING DING! Leagues are more than looks and yes some people are more league worthy.
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Old 10-27-2013, 07:51 PM
 
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Yes, there are leagues for both men and women, but it's not only about looks, it's about personality too, and sometimes status.

This doesn't take into account that people sometimes place themselves in the wrong league (i.e. too low or too high) compared to how other people see them.
True
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Old 10-27-2013, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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Leagues mean nothing, junior league women turn down major league men everyday lmao..
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Old 10-27-2013, 11:03 PM
 
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Leagues are the self imposed boundaries and restrictions one places upon oneself when you have low self esteem, no confidence and you are generally an all time loser in life. So you curl up in the corner with your blankie crying "wahhhhhh she/he is out of my league".
Yeahhh, if only it were all in everbody's head...

Leagues exist. Socioeconomic classes exist. Deal. Better yet, do something constructive about it if you find yourself unhappy with your lot in life.
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Old 10-27-2013, 11:28 PM
 
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I absolutely like league theory or better similarity theory. If I would only know it before 30 years. Definitely work for me, my energy and time concentrate at women of my own league. Date one and 3 are waiting in row. Of course they will not wait to long but theory work for me without doubt.
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Old 10-27-2013, 11:29 PM
 
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From your experience?

From what I can tell, most posters here fancy themselves as above average. There are a group of men in the exception obviously. But excluding those guys, most people think they have a decent amount going on.

I'm also pretty sure Scarlett Johannsen and Brad Pitt are not posting here. That would lead me to believe most people here are positioned so they have leagues above them and leagues below them. So, how much is it really about leagues?

How often does "I'm not attracted to you" essentially mean "I'm out of your league, you're kinda cool and nice and all, but I know I can do better. Too bad you're not cuter, it might have been beautiful. " It really makes a lot of sense if I think about it.

I would love to go out and test this theory myself and hit on women lower and uglier than me and they should for the most part reciprocate my affection. Unfortunately, I can't really think of any women who are below me, so I can't. Maybe some of you other guys can do it, and tell me how it works out.

I used to be on a Dart League.........does that count?
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Old 10-28-2013, 10:18 AM
 
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DING DING DING! Leagues are more than looks and yes some people are more league worthy.
You and TacoMan are in the same league?
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