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The feeling that no one wants you is absolutly horrible and makes many men contemplate suicide. Its not just about not having sex, but the worst part is the feeling that no one likes you. I agree that is sucks to be taken advantage off, but its kind of their fault.
I just don't think that is a very good excuse, but I'm not going to act like that's never happened to me because it has. You can't control other people's actions, but you can control how you react, such as having confidence/ambition in yourself to want to change for the better. With over 7 billion people on this overpopulated planet there has to be someone for everyone.
I just don't think that is a very good excuse, but I'm not going to act like that's never happened to me because it has. You can't control other people's actions, but you can control how you react, such as having confidence/ambition in yourself to want to change for the better. With over 7 billion people on this overpopulated planet there has to be someone for everyone.
Well, you can think about it in a different way.
With over 7 billion people on this overpopulated planet there are not one girl that likes me.
I know this feeling, because I had that growing feeling in my late teens. Then I started reading about dating theory and I improved my dating abilities.
I know making friends as an adult can be hard! I treasure the ones I have.
And I am working on it. I texted someone this morning I think is cool, and, after some back and forth, we have a coffee date for tuesday. I have another person in mind too but I dunno what i did with his phone number .
Another thing to consider is that family could sometimes be substitutted for their social needs, I know it's like that a lot of times in the hispanic culture (sister/brother, brother/sister in laws, etc..)
Yes, I get along well with my grandma and other family members. Suddenly I'm no longer introverted with them.
Only people I have close contacts with besides my parents and kid brother:
1) My grandmother and other family members
2) My long distance ex bf
I know making friends as an adult can be hard! I treasure the ones I have.
And I am working on it. I texted someone this morning I think is cool, and, after some back and forth, we have a coffee date for tuesday. I have another person in mind too but I dunno what i did with his phone number .
I am trying to get braver about reaching out .
Me too lol Ive signed up for some meetup groups in my area. Right now I'm dating someone and have been spending most of my time with her but yeah.. lol.
I think what has hurt me since moving here is that I have gotten into a rut and have always had my family there to keep me company. I have met people but they are more of acquantances and most have their own lives already. For instance one of my army buddies I met while living her has a wife/kids/job/etc..busy, another old college friend is working 60 hours/week in another city in the oil industry. The friend I did have that I spent time with we had a falling out a couple of months ago ;0.
I agree. I haven't had much luck with male friends and I ended up distancing myself from a lot of them. I find females more willing and able to talk about feelings and I've found them to be better listeners. I got frustrated with my male friends and their need to drink, smoke pot or switch the subject whenever I'd try to talk about anything serious.
Perhaps a lot of the guys on here don't have any kind of support and there's no one around to encourage them or get them to see their positive aspects?
Woman are great at that and it nice for a female you do not know that well to say you can do it or you got this.
How come guys don't talk to me about their feelings?!?!
Some men may be even more sensitive than most women.So no matter how much we hurt inside we will do our best to not let it be known. We feel it, but we won’t show it.
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Ive signed up for some meetup groups in my area. Right now I'm dating someone and have been spending most of my time with her but yeah.. lol. 
