I discovered the proposal idea... what do I do?

[pacific2]

Put on your big girl pants and stop whining. Try to focus more on the relationship, instead of on petty things.

[MIKEETC]

Originally Posted by krieger00

If i ever find a GF and it goes long term and get to that stage it will be a big surprise .

If i was the OP BF I would take the ring back or at least make you wait a long time b4 the wedding.

That would qualify as a surprise.

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[krieger00]

Originally Posted by MIKEETC

That would qualify as a surprise.

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Well i do feel if i was to ask a girl to be my wife it would be an exciting time for both of us. There would be no drama or fighting and we both be happy .

I can picture her staring to cry ask i get on one knee and ask her and when she says she we hug and I start to cry because she said yes . We hold one an other and say how happy we are to have each other and i will tell her how i cant wait to start a family with you.

[Thursday007]

What will you do and how do you see yourself after the proposal or wedding. Too often people get hung up on this stuff and lose sight of the future and what happens when the party's over.

I was engaged to a guy who spent a great deal of time making all these wedding plans with his mother. I was ticked, because I told him my parents weren't paying for any of it. It seemed like that's all he talked about and I said to him one day, "I can see myself getting married to you - but I can't see myself married to you." We took a hiatus and it failed miserably and we both moved on.

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Good grief - you are so not ready for marriage.

Please, for everyone's sake, make it a VERY LONG engagement.

Thank you.

Wow. These people just are beyond belief.