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Old 10-28-2013, 02:46 PM
 
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Sounds like someone may have NPD or at the minimal is emotionally unavailable...!

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Old 10-28-2013, 05:49 PM
 
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Trust me, there are reasons you have behaved the way you have - and they are not pretty.

Your best bet is to seek some professional counseling so that you can come to understand those reasons and learn how to move forward to get the love you want.

Anything else you do is going to take longer and risk not being successful at all. So don't waste anymore time - talk to a therapist.
I guess the only reason is my first love.When i was 17 yearsold, first time i felt love,she broke my heart and made me who i'm.Last night i had another one night stand,this time i really like the girl i didnt even want to have sex with her,she was so nice but end of the night she took me my home and we had sex.She just wanted sex nothing else from me.When she left she didn't even gave me her number or facebook adress.

I don't beilive in karma or other things but something is going really bad in my life.Everything feels so diffrent now.I rarely like a girl and girl doesn't want nothing but sex or i like a girl at first then get bored of her in a week.

If this feeling won't dissapear soon i'm really thinking about to going a therapist.Because now i don't enjoy anything in life.I don't enjoy sex,i don't enjoy alchol or music nothing gives me pleasure anymore.All my life was about girls,alchol and music.And none of them gives me pleasure anymore.
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Old 10-28-2013, 05:54 PM
 
Location: USA
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I'm a 26 yearlsold attractive guy.I used to a terrible person.I was dating with 4-5 diffrent girls in same time.Telling all the girls same stupid lies.I know a lot of girls fell in love with me.I know alot of girls who cried on phone,who said that she will kill her self,who said that i ruined her life,ive seen many tears...etc.

I never had just 1 girl in my life,i had many relationships at same time,becuase i didn't care about any of them girls.Then i start to care about women feelings and i stopped having relationships,i start to have one night stands and sex buddies..In a week i was having like 2-3 one night stands and spending rest of my days with my sex buddies.It was fun at first but then it start to be so boring.There was no point.I was having a diffrent women in my life everyday but i was still feeling so lonely.Last 3 months i promised my self that ill be a better person and ill have a serious relationship.I met some girls but i get bored of every girl so easly doesn't matter if they are so nice or gorgeous i feel a deep loneliness and it's like worst feeling.
Brad, just get back the Angelina and you will be fine
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Old 10-28-2013, 06:11 PM
 
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Brad, just get back the Angelina and you will be fine
Haha dude i don't live in USA,i live in Eastern Europe, i've heard it's hard to get women in USA but in eastern europe causal sex is so ordinary.
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Old 10-28-2013, 06:15 PM
 
Location: San Francisco, CA
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Ok first - bad grammar! If you have all that free time feeling lonely etc, try to take a class or two to write better.

Second, I know a 50 year who still acts the way you were acting, so at least you came into your senses at 26.
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Old 10-28-2013, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Xanadu
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Haha dude i don't live in USA,i live in Eastern Europe, i've heard it's hard to get women in USA but in eastern europe causal sex is so ordinary.


Really!?!?! Eastern Europe is like that!?!?! If what you say is true then screw America I'm coming over the first chance I get.
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Old 10-28-2013, 08:26 PM
 
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Sounds like some of the opening lines to LL's I need love lol
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Old 10-29-2013, 07:52 AM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Karma is a b*tch, ain't it?
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Old 10-29-2013, 10:26 AM
 
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Sounds like some of the opening lines to LL's I need love lol
Was just thinking the same thing.
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Old 10-29-2013, 10:32 AM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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I guess the only reason is my first love.When i was 17 yearsold, first time i felt love,she broke my heart and made me who i'm.Last night i had another one night stand,this time i really like the girl i didnt even want to have sex with her,she was so nice but end of the night she took me my home and we had sex.She just wanted sex nothing else from me.When she left she didn't even gave me her number or facebook adress.

I don't beilive in karma or other things but something is going really bad in my life.Everything feels so diffrent now.I rarely like a girl and girl doesn't want nothing but sex or i like a girl at first then get bored of her in a week.

If this feeling won't dissapear soon i'm really thinking about to going a therapist.Because now i don't enjoy anything in life.I don't enjoy sex,i don't enjoy alchol or music nothing gives me pleasure anymore.All my life was about girls,alchol and music.And none of them gives me pleasure anymore.
Running through women gets boring. Same thing happened to me a couple years after college. You have to want to get to know someone on a real level. It wasn't difficult for me to make the switch, but its a mental switch you need to make.
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