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I mean the girls going out every weekend looking for new p*nis aren't exactly the classy type that you want your parents to meet or raise your kids. Some are and I usually am willing to get to know a girl past her "number" to see if she is worth pursuing. In most cases, the women that sleep around are not. If you take note, again, my current gf has a high number when compared to most.
And let's not play this game that a high number equals "experience." It doesn't. A woman who had 5 LTRs and had sex nearly everyday and experimented with her boyfriends is going to be just as experienced or more than some woman who couldn't hold a relationship with over 40 guys and likely had sex less often.
So a high number is a bad thing, but is it sex partners or the act of sex? Your double-standards have just gotten more confusing. I thought if someone was bothered by a high number of sex partners, it was because of having that experience with so many other men and that it grosses you out. Yet you're not grossed out to put your p*nis in her after so many guys, but rather that she's not good for a LTR, to date, share hobbies, interests, beliefs, have fun with? Huh? What?
So a high number is a bad thing, but is it sex partners or the act of sex? Your double-standards have just gotten more confusing. I thought if someone was bothered by a high number of sex partners, it was because of having that experience with so many other men and that it grosses you out. Yet you're not grossed out to put your p*nis in her after so many guys, but rather that she's not good for a LTR, to date, share hobbies, interests, beliefs, have fun with? Huh? What?
I'm not sure I follow.
The point I was making is that sleeping with a lot of men does not make any one woman better in bed than a woman with a lesser count. Nearnorth seems to think that a high count means she's gonna rock his world. Comical. I've seen the exact opposite argument used against guys who sleep around a lot. Since they don't get to know they're lovers, they must suck in bed is the logic thrown around.
It's not gross that she's been with so many other men. It's the type of person she is that leads her to sleep with so many men rather than value a relationship that's gross.
The point I was making is that sleeping with a lot of men does not make any one woman better in bed than a woman with a lesser count.
It's not gross that she's been with so many other men. It's the type of person she is that leads her to sleep with so many men rather than value a relationship.
But doesn't that make you the same type of person she is?
Just tell guys how much your actual number is. After all, if he can't handle you at your worst then he doesn't deserve your best or something ridiculous, right?!?!
But doesn't that make you the same type of person she is?
Yes, if you don't agree with the double standard. Like I said, women are free to judge and avoid me based on my sexual past. They don't seem to care too much though in my experience.
Yes, if you don't agree with the double standard. Like I said, women are free to judge and avoid me based on my sexual past. They don't seem to care too much though in my experience.
Yet you do. What does that tell you about yourself?
Yet you do. What does that tell you about yourself?
It tells me the double standard is real. It's an attractive quality in men to be able to attract a lot of women, not so much for a woman (who have to do nothing more than look good to attract a man for sex) that sleeps around.
It tells me the double standard is real. It's an attractive quality in men to be able to attract a lot of women, not so much for a woman (who have to do nothing more than look good to attract a man for sex) that sleeps around.
The double standard is real for you, but not for most people.
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