Why doesn't he want me anymore?

[srjth]

Why did he think the relationship wouldn't work? That's important.

[Chowhound]

First off, I'm sorry you're hurting... I know how bad that feels and I don't envy you, truly.

Hang in there, it will get better.

I hope you hear me when I say this... you need to move forward, I think it's most likely over... don't pine for him. Get your head and heart right and move forward with your life.

Best to you, truly.

[RogersParkGuy]

Originally Posted by Andylei

My ex and I broke up after 3 years, 2 months ago and he is seeing someone else now. I am hearbroken. We saw eachother the other night and I proposed we try again.. he thought about it all night but wasn't sure because he thought our relationship had run it's course and he didn't think it would work. What I don't understand is he told me he loved me still and he will never be crazy about any girl but me. He told me how much better I was than his new girl and how he likes me so much more. He told me he only jumped into another relationship so he wasn't alone sitting at home thinking about me. He also said he checks my fb everyday. He said he will always love me but his heart isn't into putting effort into our relationship because he's afraid it wont work.

I don't know how he can say all those things but still not want to be with me. Do you think he will come back after his honeymoon phase with the new girl ends? I just need some advice..

I would bet any amount of money your BF was seeing this new woman before you ever broke up. I would also be surprised if she were the only other woman he was with during the course of your relationship. I believe he is now being emotionally manipulative, possibly setting you up to be his backup FWB while he carries on "real" relationships with other women. I am bewildered why you cannot see through him.