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Old 11-02-2013, 09:36 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Nah, I'm good.
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:40 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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You certainly do seem like you have an obsession. Why can't you accept that people take different paths in life? Is it wrong to do something, if you struggle to get women?

So my guess is that you already get women, and never had the need for it. You want to know something scary, I bet you use most of the PUA techniques already. If women see the PUA craphole, why aren't they rejecting you?

Also, there exists different social groups. Maybe among your group of friends people would laugh, but among other people they would not.
Be yourself, be real, be genuine.... that's all you have to do... you don't need a "formula".......... it will come off as fake... trust me... I'm most likely much older than you, and you are most likely a young man, and I get how dealing with women can be scary or intimidating.... but... leave the scripts to the Hollywood screenwriters... people know when you are full of ****... that is a life thing, nothing to do with meeting women.

Be genuine and have an interest in people, women and men alike... that goes a long way in life and in meeting women too...... trust me........ old man speaking some truth here....

Best of luck to you... I don't want to get into a pissing match and get nasty with you......
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:42 PM
 
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Be yourself, be real, be genuine.... that's all you have to do... you don't need a "formula".......... it will come off as fake... trust me... I'm most likely much older than you, and you are most likely a young man, and I get how dealing with women can be scary or intimidating.... but... leave the scripts to the Hollywood screenwriters... people know when you are full of ****... that is a life thing, nothing to do with meeting women.

Be genuine and have an interest in people, women and men alike... that goes a long way in life and in meeting women too...... trust me........ old man speaking some truth here....

Best of luck to you... I don't want to get into a pissing match and get nasty with you......
I thought you said you were a grown up, and then you post like this

Also, PUA is not about scripts or pick up lines. Its about behaviours. I think you must have watched too much youtube.
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:44 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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I thought you said you were a grown up, and then you post like this

Also, PUA is not about scripts or pick up lines. Its about behaviours. I think you must have watched too much youtube.
I was trying to be nice and you come back with this dick comment...........
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:45 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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This was just painful, but the sad part is many of the guys on here are just internet Moses Garzas looking for help.

Why Game Is Necessary


Here's the followup article that really elucidates why reading a woman's interest level by how much she's investing in the relationship, conversation, etc is soooooooooo important.

Why Game Is Necessary (Part 2)
This is just more PUA-type garbage.

Look, do you understand that PUA is a basically a marketing scheme? PUA hustlers would have you believe that the messy, complicated business of human relationships can be reduced to a simple, easy-to-follow formula. It is rubbished aimed at naïve, desperate, socially awkward men with the mentalities of 14-year-olds.
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:46 PM
 
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I was trying to be nice and you come back with this dick comment...........
No you weren't. Before you posted this, you were repeatedly calling me immature. In reality you are the one who is immature.

I think you should improve your self-reflection skills.
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Old 11-02-2013, 09:47 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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No you weren't. Before you posted this, you were repeatedly calling me immature. In reality you are the one where who is immature.

I think you should improve your self-reflection skills.
Good luck in life.....
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:38 PM
 
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All true, but you will be ignored. It will always be her fault for not wanting him, or his fault for not being enough of a proper azzhole to "make" her like him.

This whole movement stems from the idea that men are entitled to have a variety of hot pieces of ass at their fingertips, and that is can happen as long as they develop the right words to day, clothes to wear and demeanor to cop. Um... sure fellas. Go for it. LOL

Maybe it's a misguided reaction to the idea that women are inherently entitled to have a variety of hot hunks at their fingertips, without having to 'develop' anything?
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Old 11-02-2013, 11:40 PM
 
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I thought you said you were a grown up, and then you post like this

Also, PUA is not about scripts or pick up lines. Its about behaviours. I think you must have watched too much youtube.

Don't we all watch too much youtube?
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Old 11-03-2013, 10:49 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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I think this has less to do with game than it has to do with a young man without a good father figure and an overbearing mother, who also exhibits signs of depression and/or social anxiety. Obviously his "game" will not be good, because he's tied up all his esteem into finding a girlfriend and he has no mentors to tell him this is a bad idea.
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