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Old 11-02-2013, 11:35 AM
 
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This was just painful, but the sad part is many of the guys on here are just internet Moses Garzas looking for help.

Why Game Is Necessary


Here's the followup article that really elucidates why reading a woman's interest level by how much she's investing in the relationship, conversation, etc is soooooooooo important.

Why Game Is Necessary (Part 2)
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Old 11-02-2013, 01:39 PM
 
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Real empowerment comes from never attempting to manipulate people, and only dating people you admire and respect. That's why guys can spend years in the manosphere and still feel unempowered.

The examples in the article show that she was politely uninterested from the very first text. It had nothing to to do with his lack of 'game'.

His failure only came from trying to get a girl who was not attracted to him to change her mind. That works about as often as a girl you find unattractive can change your mind.
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Old 11-02-2013, 01:46 PM
 
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His failure only came from trying to get a girl who was not attracted to him to change her mind. That works about as often as a girl you find unattractive can change your mind.
Good post. The entire PUA industry is built on this premise, and anyone who actually has experience in the real world, knows it is a complete farce. But I guess the millions of desperate, unattractive men that buy into it need that hope that they actually have a real chance in the mating game.
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Old 11-02-2013, 01:55 PM
 
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Real empowerment comes from never attempting to manipulate people, and only dating people you admire and respect. That's why guys can spend years in the manosphere and still feel unempowered.

The examples in the article show that she was politely uninterested from the very first text. It had nothing to to do with his lack of 'game'.

His failure only came from trying to get a girl who was not attracted to him to change her mind. That works about as often as a girl you find unattractive can change your mind.
All true, but you will be ignored. It will always be her fault for not wanting him, or his fault for not being enough of a proper azzhole to "make" her like him.

This whole movement stems from the idea that men are entitled to have a variety of hot pieces of ass at their fingertips, and that is can happen as long as they develop the right words to day, clothes to wear and demeanor to cop. Um... sure fellas. Go for it. LOL
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Old 11-02-2013, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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This was just painful, but the sad part is many of the guys on here are just internet Moses Garzas looking for help.

Why Game Is Necessary


Here's the followup article that really elucidates why reading a woman's interest level by how much she's investing in the relationship, conversation, etc is soooooooooo important.

Why Game Is Necessary (Part 2)
I'm not wasting my time reading other individuals' text messages and FB posts.

[cliff notes?]
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Old 11-02-2013, 03:15 PM
 
Location: The Bowery
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Why would I not be like Moses Garza that is greatest combination of names ever.
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Old 11-02-2013, 03:52 PM
 
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I'm not wasting my time reading other individuals' text messages and FB posts.

[cliff notes?]
Example 1 is some kid who spends way to much time on Facebook complaining about not having a girlfriend even tough he's a "nice guy". Then he keeps making posts to show what a nice guy he is. Then he gets into mein kampf and gets angry.


Example 2 is some kid that won't stop texting a girl no matter how many times she tells him she's not interested and asks him to stop.
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Old 11-02-2013, 04:06 PM
 
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Game is ridiculous. it takes vagina-begging to a whole new level and I ain't taking about Aladdin taking his girl for a magical carpet ride. It makes the man look like a fool, with his canned one-lines and gizmos to attract attention. You ain't a peackcock, son. Women aren't interested in being hit on by men who don't look like this or by guys who aren't bad boy like this

Good-looks will always trump game and that nonsense of Alpha male body language and kino and sarging and the other PUA BS lingo used on Roissy's and Rollo blog are made for 15 year old pimple-faced World of Warcraft Refugees who're trying to impress their equally nerdy friends.
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Old 11-02-2013, 04:09 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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SWEET!!!!!

Another "game" thread.
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Old 11-02-2013, 04:24 PM
 
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If you want to be treated like a toy, play a game.

If you want to be treated like a man, behave like one.

HINT: Manipulation is not manly. It's weaselly.
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