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Old 11-02-2013, 06:40 PM
 
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It could be that after the break-up, she was possibly a little sad and kept herself busy with social activities. She could have met new friends who are facebookers too and they just like to keep their pages updated.

alot of times, after a break up or a divorce people like to change or transform themselves into a better version or what they think to be a better version of themselves.

hey it happens. scenarios a woman goes and gets plastic surgery after her husband cheated on her with a younger woman or a middle aged man afraid of growing old buys a ferrari and invests in hair plugs. whatever makes them happy, i guess./

like i said, shes probably just out there living her life. does it bother u? does she seem happier than when u dated? a ere any feelings resurfacing? hmmm lol

 
Old 11-02-2013, 06:40 PM
 
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You broke up with her... Unfriend her already. It isn't a out you, sport. She's moved on... Don't overthink this. Don't under think it either.
I agree.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Washington D.C. Area
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Why are you looking at her stuff in the first place? Why not unfriend her or make it so she doesn't show up in your newsfeed?
I'm not looking at her stuff. She is always on my news feed. Plus her picture always shows up on my profile where you see random friends. Makes me think she is probably looking at my page a lot.

Also.. I want HER to be the one to unfriend me. I don't want to make her seem important enough to unfriend.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 06:55 PM
 
Location: Washington D.C. Area
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It could be that after the break-up, she was possibly a little sad and kept herself busy with social activities. She could have met new friends who are facebookers too and they just like to keep their pages updated.

alot of times, after a break up or a divorce people like to change or transform themselves into a better version or what they think to be a better version of themselves.

hey it happens. scenarios a woman goes and gets plastic surgery after her husband cheated on her with a younger woman or a middle aged man afraid of growing old buys a ferrari and invests in hair plugs. whatever makes them happy, i guess./

like i said, shes probably just out there living her life. does it bother u? does she seem happier than when u dated? a ere any feelings resurfacing? hmmm lol
I think she is pretending to be more happy, but is really miserable. Most happy people I know are not on Facebook much. Most frequent posters are bored (like you said) or trying to prove something by showing off.

I only check it once a day to see whats new with people and see if I have any invites. She is always on the news feed though.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 06:55 PM
 
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I'm not looking at her stuff. She is always on my news feed. Plus her picture always shows up on my profile where you see random friends. Makes me think she is probably looking at my page a lot.

Also.. I want HER to be the one to unfriend me. I don't want to make her seem important enough to unfriend.

Like many people, you have a lot of pride but you also want this person. There is a conflict there. You have to resolve one or the other.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 06:55 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I'm not looking at her stuff. She is always on my news feed. Plus her picture always shows up on my profile where you see random friends. Makes me think she is probably looking at my page a lot.

Also.. I want HER to be the one to unfriend me. I don't want to make her seem important enough to unfriend.

It always comes down to gamesmanship, huh?
 
Old 11-02-2013, 06:58 PM
 
Location: Washington D.C. Area
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Like many people, you have a lot of pride but you also want this person. There is a conflict there. You have to resolve one or the other.
I want who she was when we started dating. I don't like who she became and that's why I dumped her.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 07:00 PM
 
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I want who she was when we started dating. I don't like who she became and that's why I dumped her.
She's not going to change.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 07:02 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I'm not looking at her stuff. She is always on my news feed. Plus her picture always shows up on my profile where you see random friends. Makes me think she is probably looking at my page a lot.

Also.. I want HER to be the one to unfriend me. I don't want to make her seem important enough to unfriend.
Why are you still playing games with her if you don't want to be with her? And why are you spending so much time thinking about this? You don't want to make her seem important enough to unfriend - yet you are spending an awful lot of thought on why she is posting the pictures she is posting, how often she looks at your page, etc. If she doesn't mean anything to you - simply unfriend her and move on.

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I think she is pretending to be more happy, but is really miserable. Most happy people I know are not on Facebook much. Most frequent posters are bored (like you said) or trying to prove something by showing off.

I only check it once a day to see whats new with people and see if I have any invites. She is always on the news feed though.
Actually, I know a lot of happy people on Facebook. A lot of them simply like sharing. I would say that people with more time on their hands post more often - but I don't think that happiness is a factor.
 
Old 11-02-2013, 07:03 PM
 
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She's not going to change.
That's why I dumped her.
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