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Old 11-03-2013, 04:19 PM
 
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It's crazy!!! I don't know how people do it. Okay, the title is a bit misleading, but it's not really about loving someone you can't have. It's about the feeling of "liking" "loving" or "falling" for someone and the feeling of the "unknown". Regardless of whether you can get that person or not is not an issue. In my case, I think he's way out of my league and is currently emotional unavailable. I can't move on and it's killing me. Not to mention, we flirted and had a great time together. I don't like having a crush on someone. I don't want to feel this way. Arghhh!

How d'you forget someone quickly? If you have any suggestions on how to not feel, I would be more than happy to listen (or in this case, read).
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Old 11-03-2013, 04:24 PM
 
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For real! I agree!

Pretend they're dead and you'll get over them.

Last edited by srjth; 11-03-2013 at 04:38 PM..
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Old 11-03-2013, 04:45 PM
 
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For real! I agree!

Pretend they're dead and you'll get over them.

Love your advice. LoL I wish my imagination is that great but it's not
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Old 11-03-2013, 04:56 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Please OP, I implore you to not say "The heart wants what the hearts wants."

I hear that BS one more time and someones gonna get hurt.....
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Old 11-03-2013, 05:05 PM
 
Location: Montreal, Quebec
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Get one of those Men In Black Neuralizer thingies.
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Old 11-03-2013, 05:06 PM
 
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I hear that BS one more time and someones gonna get hurt.....

I am going to say it...since I know the person who'll get hurt is not going to be me
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Old 11-03-2013, 05:07 PM
 
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Get one of those Men In Black Neuralizer thingies.
There you go...
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Old 11-03-2013, 05:07 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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i am going to say it...since i know the person who'll get hurt is not going to be me
lol......
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Old 11-03-2013, 06:34 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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I don't know. One guy at my work still pines over his ex and they were split up over 20 years ago. She moved on he didnt
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Old 11-03-2013, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires
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OP, maybe you should cut contact.
Also go out as much as you can, meet new and interesting people, take up new hobbies, and you'll find that your plate is so full, you won't have time to remember him.


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I don't know. One guy at my work still pines over his ex and they were split up over 20 years ago. She moved on he didnt
I don´t get this. If I see somebody is uninterested in me, I'm not going to pine for or fight for his attention, it just seems silly to me. I don't even understand how people can be desperate to win somebody's heart. Either it's given freely or I don't f*cking want it.
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