My child's teacher has crush on me (female, sex, pregnant)
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It is not my fault, and to be honest I do not know why certain people like me, while I am tall, I am a little overweight, I got a big nose, and even a little introverted some women hit on me, and not like flirt, but I have had women tell me through text messages that they hate their husband, and if I ever leave my wife to call them. One women asked me to dance and then started trying to make out with me 10 feet from where my wife was sitting. Others have sent me text messages late at night saying if I would come pick them up from the bar they would make sure it was worth it for me. I have had women ask me to leave bars with them, I had one Realtor recently tell me she would send me more deals if I would go to Vegas with her for the weekend. I am a mortgage broker and deal with some very aggressive women as part of my job, my wife used to laugh at how clueless I am about women hitting on me until they would go way past the line. These last few weeks that has changed.
As I said before I do not know why these situations happen other then they find me irresistible, I partially think it is because I handle myself in a professional manner and make no secret that I am married and plan on staying that way, and some women find that to be a challenge. My wife thinks it is because I am their sounding board, when people are buying a house or dealing with their finances all together you become almost a counselor, even with real estate agents use some mortgage brokers to vent to. people will tell you things that you do not want to know, they want your help in solving all their problems, and become very vulnerable, sometimes they do not seem to realize that it is not an intimate relationship for me and most other professionals, we may become friends, but that is as far as I would like to take it, some people don't like that.
If you knew the truth, why did you deliberately lie to misalign the OP?
Then reply, "I know what he said" as if you did it purposely. Shame on you
"As for my wife, I already go out of my way to do stuff such as you suggest, which is one reason some women hate me, but some find me irresistible."
Versus "He can't be that clueless. He said he was "irresistible." "
Somehow you cut off the rest of the sentence. Talk about sneaky. You show no remorse except your admitting you knew the truth of what he said. Please apologize to the OP. Thank you
I have a kid... well I just found out he's 34 (10 years younger) who had a huge crush on me for months now. Blew my mind. Even my husband noticed. Why? I don't know. Because it's part of life maybe? I have no doubt he finds me irresistible. That doesn't mean I find me irresistible. Nor does it mean, as a fact, that I am irresistible. Words matter. Motives matter. So what's the big deal? We've all been there. People are attracted to different people, it's life. Hopefully we can all strive to keep it TRUTHFUL, no matter how we view ourselves.
but I have had women tell me through text messages that they hate their husband, and if I ever leave my wife to call them.
With all due respect, this is weird.
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One women asked me to dance and then started trying to make out with me 10 feet from where my wife was sitting. Others have sent me text messages late at night saying if I would come pick them up from the bar they would make sure it was worth it for me. I have had women ask me to leave bars with them,
You are married, yet you hang out in bars? And find nothing repulsive about women who feel you are at the level of a Prostitute? Honestly, I've been married 22 years. The majority of it people have whistled at me on the street. I've been a cyclist until about 2 years ago when I was hurt. We just got back to it.
So I am confident I am not ugly. Yet for anyone to talk to me with such a vulgar intent is to disrespect myself and my husband. You need counseling. No matter what you look like, it doesn't justify these weird things happening. Your a father, and husband, grow up.
If you knew the truth, why did you deliberately lie to misalign the OP?
Then reply, "I know what he said" as if you did it purposely. Shame on you
"As for my wife, I already go out of my way to do stuff such as you suggest, which is one reason some women hate me, but some find me irresistible."
Versus "He can't be that clueless. He said he was "irresistible." "
Somehow you cut off the rest of the sentence. Talk about sneaky. You show no remorse except your admitting you knew the truth of what he said. Please apologize to the OP. Thank you
I have a kid... well I just found out he's 34 (10 years younger) who had a huge crush on me for months now. Blew my mind. Even my husband noticed. Why? I don't know. Because it's part of life maybe? I have no doubt he finds me irresistible. That doesn't mean I find me irresistible. Nor does it mean, as a fact, that I am irresistible. Words matter. Motives matter. So what's the big deal? We've all been there. People are attracted to different people, it's life. Hopefully we can all strive to keep it TRUTHFUL, no matter how we view ourselves.
Spare me the white knighting. Are you one of the ones who finds him irresistible?
scratch your butt, pick your nose and wave your boogers around her hair that should solve the issue.
Darn, and I was going to suggest that he just.not.ever.be.in.her.presence.
Even if this is all in someone's imagination, the ladies in the neighborhood are on the scent so that is really the only thing that will work to keep this out of the gossip mill.
However, I would also suggest some well placed passing of gas.
There are some excellent points here though I only bolded some. You seemed really grounded until this..."crushing on you" and "Your hotness as a Mac Daddy" these words of yours don't make sense to me. They sound more like lyrics to a rap song played on MTV that a response to someone on a message board asking for advice. But I totally agree with your first statement and your wise advice he try to not be alone with the Teacher.
Excuse me, what? Who are YOU to tell ME what phraseology to use?
Wag your finger at me, newbie, go ahead. Those of us who have been around for a while don't really appreciate newcomers deciding what advice is supposed to "sound like".
Why don't you wait until you've racked up a few rep points before you start micromanaging threads, right?
Chill, lady. Chiilax. Bet you don't like that either.
This is very bad advice. Unless she exposes her genitals at OP there is nothing to "'report". OP would sound very silly ""reporting"" NORMAL flirting. What is he supposed to say to the principal that the teacher is playing with her hair while talking to the OP? Flirting is hard to prove. Unless he is physically sexually harassed which is unlikely he should man it up & tell his wife to grow some self esteem.
1. For the rest of this school year, do you disagree with avoiding the teacher and waiting it out? Because that's what almost everyone else in the thread is saying.
2. There's nothing wrong with one adult telling another adult to back off. Whether this is normal flirting (with the married father of one of her students ) is open to interpretation.
Excuse me, what? Who are YOU to tell ME what phraseology to use?
Wag your finger at me, newbie, go ahead. Those of us who have been around for a while don't really appreciate newcomers deciding what advice is supposed to "sound like".
Why don't you wait until you've racked up a few rep points before you start micromanaging threads, right?
Chill, lady. Chiilax. Bet you don't like that either.
It's fine. I like your poster name, by the way
I didn't micromanage anything that I am aware of
Nor tell you what to say
Or even how to say it
Nor wag my finger (that is an interesting visual )
No one needs to "earn points here" to participate in a discussion.
Nor "earn" the right to say what they want by accumulating Rep Points.
I am not sure what those are, to be honest. I hit the rep button and get those back if that's what you mean. & notes sometimes
And I don't ever intend to rep anyone with anything negative.
I didn't meant to offend you, yet I did. I'll ensure to re-read my posts for now on. Thanks for letting me know.
Last edited by californiawomann5; 11-06-2013 at 09:16 PM..
Spare me the white knighting. Are you one of the ones who finds him irresistible?
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