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Sorry but you are going to have to just straight up ask the guy. Not everyone operates in the same fashion. Not everyone has had the same experiences. You don't know what has led to him being this shy or holding back. Maybe it is not his style. You need to openly communicate with the guy and ask him. You seem to be the one in need of physical activity so ask why he hasn't been a bit more physical. That has nothing to do with being a man. Furthermore, maybe he has issues that you may not want to be a part of. You may find yourself taking led in other aspects of the relationship so you had better find out now than later.
And mind you, don't be surprised if and when he finally opens up, there is no mercy! You asked for it and you may get more than you bargain for- a real nymph.
So stop trying to train him and ask.
Last edited by halfamazing; 11-12-2013 at 12:17 PM..
But if you find him continuing to move too slow, you are going to have to make a move caus that only means you may be a bit more aggressive than he.
No I dont want to make a move. I prefer if he initiates. Hes been initiating on contacting me and asking me out so I dont see why he cant initiate holding my hand.
No I dont want to make a move. I prefer if he initiates. Hes been initiating on contacting me and asking me out so I dont see why he cant initiate holding my hand.
I don't think you understand something about guys. They don't care about holding hands.
It's a girl thing to like to hold hands while walking or whatever.
If he makes a move, it's not going to be holding your hand. It's either going to be a move towards your lips with his lips or an arm around your shoulder.
Is it really too hard for you to just like maybe smile more when your with him, and stare at his eyes a little more? Or even just touch his shoulder, or playfully punch his shoulder. Like c'mon gal.
I don't think you understand something about guys. They don't care about holding hands.
It's a girl thing to like to hold hands while walking or whatever.
If he makes a move, it's not going to be holding your hand. It's either going to be a move towards your lips with his lips or an arm around your shoulder.
Is it really too hard for you to just like maybe smile more when your with him, and stare at his eyes a little more? Or even just touch his shoulder, or playfully punch his shoulder. Like c'mon gal.
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Or rub his arm or hell just hug him next time you see him.
Also it could be that your not giving off a friendly vibe so he does not know if he should make a move. Next you might be hard to read so he does not want to go in for a kiss and you tell Him NO WAY GUY.
You need to act into him more and he will make a move if your giving him i am into you i am not into you all through the date he might be like well is she interested?
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