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Old 11-12-2013, 12:46 PM
 
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Rachel... time to dump Ross.
Whoa! wait a minute.

Ross cheated on Rachel?!?!
What an idiot!!!
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Old 11-13-2013, 01:02 PM
 
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Whoa! wait a minute.

Ross cheated on Rachel?!?!
What an idiot!!!
But they were on a break!
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Old 11-13-2013, 01:10 PM
 
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I'm confused, didnt you start this thread not too long ago?

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Old 11-13-2013, 01:13 PM
 
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But they were on a break!
I was totally getting ready to say this.......hahaha
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Old 11-13-2013, 01:22 PM
 
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If you have to ask then the next guy is going to play u like monopoly too. Six years, and he hasn't asked the question? Unless he's not religious you're getting taken for a ride.
MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. I get that some people want to date for a long time before marriage, but wtf SIX YEARS?! I think 3 years would be my max and then maybe having a longish engagement (like 2 years).

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I'm confused, didnt you start this thread not too long ago?

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...gain-help.html

Maybe that was about the time they were on a break?
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Old 11-13-2013, 01:58 PM
 
Location: east coast
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I'm confused, didnt you start this thread not too long ago?

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...gain-help.html

wait!!!!! Pause the thread! ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^(sssssssilence in the room)

Dated 10/13/13

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recently met a guy that I think is pretty cool...but they all seem this way in the beginning. Is there a way to weed out guys who are just stringing me along and playing games? I am soooo sick of rejection! Should I just stop dating or is this just something you have to learn to deal with?
Let's talk about it shall we OP?
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Old 11-13-2013, 01:59 PM
 
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go, then stay. then go again....then stay....then go.

seriously it shouldn't even be a question of going or staying unless you have some internally made up struggle making you unable to think for yourself
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Old 11-13-2013, 01:59 PM
 
Location: east coast
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MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. I get that some people want to date for a long time before marriage, but wtf SIX YEARS?! I think 3 years would be my max and then maybe having a longish engagement (like 2 years).




Maybe that was about the time they were on a break?
Just doesn't add up. She has just as much dirt. Like I said, there is no black and white!
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Old 11-13-2013, 02:01 PM
 
Location: east coast
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Crucified? Please...people have said, "Yeah, go your own way. He's dishonest and you clearly feel you can't trust him...and you have reason to feel so."

Sorry, but when you cheat, lie, are otherwise dishonest, you run the risk of losing your relationships over it. This isn't "being crucified and burning in hell." It's simply cause/effect. It's a completely understandable effect of being unfaithful. Saying, "Well, yes, I lied to you, but look! I'm COMING CLEAN ABOUT IT!" isn't really this big noble thing you seem to think it is. Saying, "Of course I cheated, what do you think I am, a robot? Men have needs, and you just don't understand! At least I'm being honest with you about it!" isn't a ringing endorsement of future fidelity, now is it? What exactly is the guy in this hypothetical scenario supposed to be "getting recognition" for? Being "sad" that he cheated? Come on. You do untrustworthy things, you get treated as untrustworthy. Not rocket science.

Just being a voice of clarity.
I tell you what is not rocket science- her posting on 10/13 that she can't find date.... you may want to reconsider your post. Mine was case specific and i was suspect the entire time- looka what we have here now....
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Old 11-15-2013, 02:08 AM
 
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Uh, it's a boyfriend, which means he's doing you a major, major favor. Imagine if you were six years and two children deep into a marriage.

Run, Forrestina, run!
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