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Old 11-17-2013, 01:25 PM
 
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I will admit to being a guy who needs a hit on the head every now and then to pick up on a sign from a woman.

One time I was out with a group of friends and one of the two girls among the guys at our table told me that a girl sitting across the bar was totally eyeing me up and I never noticed that she walked by our table twice.

The guys didn't notice either that two other girls from another table near hers were checking us out but the girls at our table did the whole time. Why is that?

Are women that bold with the signs even if they suspect that a guy is with a girl or do they just know somehow by your powers that a guy is not with the women he comes in with and use the signs to test him? Did you receive some sort of permission from the girls or are guys just too stupid or dumbfounded to understand? Maybe it's your greater peripheral vision?

Share your secrets.
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Old 11-17-2013, 01:26 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I just have to ask - all enquiring minds want to know

WHY do you begin EVERY thread that way ("in the context of relationships")? It's more than a little redundant and pretty unnecessary.

To answer your question...I think it's a self esteem issue.

Guys with lower self esteem just have a hard time believing any woman could be sending him signals or showing interest.
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Old 11-17-2013, 01:36 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Guys with lower self esteem just have a hard time believing any woman could be sending him signals or showing interest.
Exactly!
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Old 11-17-2013, 01:41 PM
 
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I just have to ask - all enquiring minds want to know

WHY do you begin EVERY thread that way ("in the context of relationships")? It's more than a little redundant and pretty unnecessary.

To answer your question...I think it's a self esteem issue.

Guys with lower self esteem just have a hard time believing any woman could be sending him signals or showing interest.
Heh, women don't send signals. They appear receptive to most males who are near them and then they expect men to approach, but they'll only accept the advances of the men who are attractive(tall, muscular etc).
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Old 11-17-2013, 01:41 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Sometimes "signs" aren't deliberate.
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Old 11-17-2013, 01:53 PM
 
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Heh, women don't send signals. They appear receptive to most males who are near them and then they expect men to approach, but they'll only accept the advances of the men who are attractive(tall, muscular etc).


When we are interested in a guy, we send all kinds of signals.
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Old 11-17-2013, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Heh, women don't send signals. They appear receptive to most males who are near them and then they expect men to approach, but they'll only accept the advances of the men who are attractive(tall, muscular etc).
Bull.
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Old 11-17-2013, 02:07 PM
 
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Bull.
Several times have I(and friends of mine, not the Alpha) have had the signals of interest down to perfect and when I(and my friends approached) the women denied interest. I remember one woman who gave me the whole spectrum of ''interest'', playing with her hair, blushing, checking me out and so on, and when I asked her on a date she got mad at me. No, unless a woman approaches me and says she wants to go on a dutch date with me, I'm not going to consider her showing up wherever I am at, or joining my conversation with my friends and what else, to be interest.

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When we are interested in a guy, we send all kinds of signals.
When you are interested and you aren't 40 years old and older than that, you approach the men you are interested in, since women are very rarely interested in a man.
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Old 11-17-2013, 02:10 PM
 
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I just have to ask - all enquiring minds want to know

WHY do you begin EVERY thread that way ("in the context of relationships&quot? It's more than a little redundant and pretty unnecessary.

To answer your question...I think it's a self esteem issue.

Guys with lower self esteem just have a hard time believing any woman could be sending him signals or showing interest.
Of course. The fact that the woman doesn't have the stones to directly state her interest is the man's fault. Her inability to put herself out there is actually the man's lack of self esteem. Good god women are ridiculous. Baaaahahaha.
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Old 11-17-2013, 02:12 PM
 
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When we are interested in a guy, we send all kinds of signals.
Signals...riiiight. Anything but actually put yourself out there and be direct. So much for empowerment. You go grrrrrl
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