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Old 11-24-2013, 01:24 PM
 
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So follow up on my previous thread, are there hints that you drop to let your guys know you are interested at the beginning of your courtship? What are some ways you have tried to get him to spend more time with you (without being toooooo obvious or aggressive)?

For example, from my past experience, if we are going on a group camping trip, and he stays behind to do something, I sometimes find a reason to stay behind too
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:26 PM
 
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So follow up on my previous thread, are there hints that you drop to let your guys know you are interested at the beginning of your courtship? What are some ways you have tried to get him to spend more time with you (without being toooooo obvious or aggressive)?

For example, from my past experience, if we are going on a group camping trip, and he stays behind to do something, I sometimes find a reason to stay behind too
I don't know how old you are, but tell a friend to tell him or his friend that you think he's cute.

That'll work every time. Unless of course, he's not interested.

Not surprising either as it's never happened to me.
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:28 PM
 
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Asking him out directly is one surefire way.
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Aren't you supposed to display certain feathers or something?
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:32 PM
 
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I don't know how old you are, but tell a friend to tell him or his friend that you think he's cute.

That'll work every time. Unless of course, he's not interested.

Not surprising either as it's never happened to me.
what do you mean it never happened to you?

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Asking him out directly is one surefire way.
I am trying to avoid this. I don't want to appear too aggressive.
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:33 PM
 
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Aren't you supposed to display certain feathers or something?

ummm feathers???????
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:34 PM
 
Location: The High Seas
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Walk ten to fifteen feet ahead and keep on dropping your keys and picking them up. Eventually, he'll get the hint.
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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ummm feathers???????
Yeah. Haven't you ever gone up to a guy and done either of these? How the hell else is he supposed to know?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hd-ueLAgIQU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jTBHiZtnCsA
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:52 PM
 
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You've got it backwards...its the guys doing those dances.
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Old 11-24-2013, 01:54 PM
 
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what do you mean it never happened to you?



I am trying to avoid this. I don't want to appear too aggressive.
No woman has ever approached me, either aggressively or passively.
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