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Old 11-25-2013, 10:58 AM
 
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1. good sex
2. money
3. good sex
4. nice car
5. good sex
6. mansion
7. good sex
8. boat
9. good sex
10. good relationship with his mother
I'm not really experienced enough or ahead in life enough or lucky enough to give those things. I can offer a ride, a place to stay, and a tasty meal, but that's about it, save for my timid personality.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:00 AM
 
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You mean friends first?
What the heck? No! That has nothing to do with what I said. Is your reading comprehension really that bad?

What I and others were saying is that he has to have friends that he is not attracted to, actual friends, before women will want him for an LTR. He can't be looking for a sweetie to meet 100% of his social and emotional needs -- that is a disaster.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:02 AM
 
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I'm not really experienced enough or ahead in life enough or lucky enough to give those things. I can offer a ride, a place to stay, and a tasty meal, but that's about it, save for my timid personality.
Don't offer the ride or the place to stay on a first date .

Did you check out the links in the 'how to become a great lover' thread? Experience alone is not enough for most people. You can get a head start on the rest, now .
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:09 AM
 
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Don't offer the ride or the place to stay on a first date .

Did you check out the links in the 'how to become a great lover' thread? Experience alone is not enough for most people. You can get a head start on the rest, now .
Missed the links
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:11 AM
 
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What the heck? No! That has nothing to do with what I said. Is your reading comprehension really that bad?

What I and others were saying is that he has to have friends that he is not attracted to, actual friends, before women will want him for an LTR. He can't be looking for a sweetie to meet 100% of his social and emotional needs -- that is a disaster.
No need for insults.

You quoted me saying that the way to go is large numbers and low investment. The opposite of that is friends first.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:20 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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No need for insults.

You quoted me saying that the way to go is large numbers and low investment. The opposite of that is friends first.
And there's a middle ground to that.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:21 AM
 
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Sanity.
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Old 11-25-2013, 11:54 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I'm not really experienced enough or ahead in life enough or lucky enough to give those things. I can offer a ride, a place to stay, and a tasty meal, but that's about it, save for my timid personality.

My best lovers where the one that were inexperienced. They tried alot and were willing to learn and listen to my desires.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Sto'Vo'Kor
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So not true.

I couldn't care less about his penis size.
I'm saying. If I want a big penis, I can buy one from the sex toy shop.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:07 PM
 
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I'm not really experienced enough or ahead in life enough or lucky enough to give those things. I can offer a ride, a place to stay, and a tasty meal, but that's about it, save for my timid personality.
It's not about luck. But you wouldn't understand that since not holding yourself accountable seems to be your signature move.

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