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Old 09-12-2014, 01:32 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I just think your blame shifting. She was certainly being manipulative. Maybe he is a puss, but she was deceptive.

How? Did she imply she wasn't having sex with someone else? If someone told me they "don't sleep around" or when you try to get it on that they say "I'm not ready for this" or whatever there is no way that my first thought is she isn't having any sex at all. That wouldn't be my fifth thought either. I mean, seriously, that is your first thought?
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:32 PM
 
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Oh please. Naive-ville wants their native son back.
It's funny to me how you see no fault whatsoever on the woman's side.

Whenever a girl plays the I'm not like that card, she is trying to get you to think a certain way about her.

You're the only one being naive here champ.
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:33 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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It's funny to me how you see no fault whatsoever on the woman's side.

Whenever a girl plays the I'm not like that card, she is trying to get you to think a certain way about her.

You're the only one being naive here champ.

Man, if that is manipulation to you, wow, holy weak mindedness. Your manipulated crazy easy.

I don't see any fault because there was nothing done wrong.
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:34 PM
 
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How? Did she imply she wasn't having sex with someone else? If someone told me they "don't sleep around" or when you try to get it on that they say "I'm not ready for this" or whatever there is no way that my first thought is she isn't having any sex at all. That wouldn't be my fifth thought either. I mean, seriously, that is your first thought?
Depends on the sitch. If it was a lets wait, your special, I'm not like that, possibly. More likely these days I see it as manipulation to make me think about her in a certain light. Obviously she convinced the OP.
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:36 PM
 
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Man, if that is manipulation to you, wow, holy weak mindedness. Your manipulated crazy easy.

I don't see any fault because there was nothing done wrong.
Whatever captain saveahoe.
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:37 PM
 
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Whatever captain saveahoe.
No convincing some people. Some refuse to acknowledge the true nature of some women.
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:40 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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No convincing some people. Some refuse to acknowledge the true nature of some women.

Yeah, those 20 year happily married faithful women are such wh*res.

Good God.
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:42 PM
 
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No convincing some people. Some refuse to acknowledge the true nature of some women.
I mean, how many times do you hear about dudes that find out down the road their wives or gfs lied about or hid their pasts. It's always straight up manipulation to make their LTR target think of them a certain way.

And in those threads there is always a few guys that will defend the woman to death. It's just in their nature. Just got to spot them and disengage after you have said your piece
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:43 PM
 
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Yeah, those 20 year happily married faithful women are such wh*res.

Good God.
Wrong thread einstein
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Old 09-12-2014, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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I don't care if my wife sucked off 4 dudes in their front seats while they drove, as long as it was before we were exclusive, unless she refuses to suck ME off in my front seat while I'm driving.

Because then, it becomes personal.
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