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I'm 19( just turned 19) my current GF is still 18 for another 2 or so weeks. My problem is that I don't feel " in her league". FYI we both go to college.
Me: 5'9 hazel eyes, brown hair, glasses, no 6 pack( pudgy I'll admit it), almost zero athletic ability.
Her: 5'6ish blonde hair blue eyes, dance team in high school.
I have the age old " What is a beautiful girl like her doing with a meh looking guy like me?" question constantly swirling in my head along with " girls like her should be dating guys who look like ( insert name of popular male celebrity here).
We met at a Halloween party and are now on break and separate from each other for 5 weeks( our school combines T'giving and x-mas into 1 break). My family + friends tell me she's with me to be with me and that I'm not her " rebound" until Mr. square jaw with a 6 pack rolls by. I try not to bring this up to her as I like to show confidence. Should I bring it up?
Oh come on, she is with you. That means you are the best she can get. That also means you are the best for her.
Btw, there is like zero reason an adolescent male should not have a slamming body.
Nobody has it easier than you do in that respect.
So quit being lazy and go work out.
A sense of accomplishment will help puff out your chest.
Replace "Why is she with me" with "I'm tagging the hot chick in school" and if that doesn't get your chest swollen, then be grateful that at least another part of your body gets the honors.
Don't get me wrong we're both in love( yes we use that word already) but I feel like I could contort my words into something like " why do you love me?" only after I tell her why I love her.
Don't get me wrong we're both in love( yes we use that word already) but I feel like I could contort my words into something like " why do you love me?" only after I tell her why I love her.
How can you love a person you don't even feel belongs with you?
It is never a good idea to throw around that word early in a relationship.
I have to say, you seem to be ignoring everyone's advice and posting the same thing over and over again in this thread.....
If she leaves you it would be more about your insecurities than anything else, which in turn will make them only worse.
Be happy knowing you have a girl yoy really like. I used to have a neighbor that was a super smart, successful, perfect 10 type woman for many guys. She wouldn't date super attractive men cause she found they often cheated because they had a million options.
Feel good that your gf is really into you and if things don't work, use it as confidence for the next girl you meet.
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