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So the other day I met up for drinks with my new neighbor (a girl) and she brought along 2 of her guy friends. We all had a great time and by the end of the night one of the guys was putting his arm around me. I found him to be attractive so I didn't object and I was a little drunk so I let him kiss me. I kissed him back lightly and passionately and he was starting to go crazy. He said he wanted badly to bring me home but he could see that I was drunk and didn't think it would be right to do it. But we kept kissing and he was like - alright let's go back to my place but I promise I won't touch you, I will be a gentleman. I will make a promise to my friend (my girl neighbor) that I won't do anything inappropriate. I just want to cuddle you all night and then we will have brunch and watch Lord of the Rings together ).
So I ended up going home with him and he was being a gentleman and was trying to be appropriate but I [initiated the sex]. He even said - will you marry me tomorrow? (probably as a joke, and I laughed). We ended up staying in bed all morning and not going out to brunch and not watching Lord of the Rings. He had to leave by 12 to travel home for Thanksgiving so that was when we parted. I even helped him fold his clothes.
Then he texted me today and wished me a Happy Thanksgiving. I said- you too. How is your vacation going? He said - partied last night with my friends, and ate and slept all day today, and you?. I said - nice, I helped cook all day and ate some yummy food and now I'm really full . Then he said - time for some Lord of the Rings!! And I said - Yes!! Can't wait
I haven't heard a reply since I said this, but I'm wondering if I'm sounding too eager and am coming off as too strong or needy. Even though he enjoyed the sex and was impressed, I don't want to turn him off by acting like I am too excited to see him. It was kind of an automatic reply on my part but I realized how it may have sounded after I sent it. He is coming back in 4 days so I wonder why he said "time for some Lord of the Rings" as if we were going to see each other that same day?? Maybe I'm over-analyzing everything. Your thoughts? Do you think I ruined it?
I don't think u ruined anything. He's visiting family and it's rude to be on the phone when your a guest in someone's house. My dad doesn't even allow me to touch my phone in his presents. Lol you're over analyzing this. How old are you?
I'm 25 (and he's 24).
I think I'm overanalyzing because I slept with him on the first date and am worried that he might now view me only in a certain way. I intimidated some guys in the past with my high sex drive and experience and I don't want that to happen again. :/
I'm 25 (and he's 24).
I think I'm overanalyzing because I slept with him on the first date and am worried that he might now view me only in a certain way. I intimidated some guys in the past with my high sex drive and experience and I don't want that to happen again. :/
Hey, a guy who is intimidated by that is not a guy you can be happy with long term. Use it as a filter, and filter out dudes who don't meet you halfway.
Don't worry unless it's wednesday and you haven't heard from him . He may be doing family stuff all weekend, then scrambling to catch up on work, monday and tuesday. If he doesn't text you by end of day tuesday, send him one wednesday morning in case he is thinking it is now too late.
Hey, a guy who is intimidated by that is not a guy you can be happy with long term. Use it as a filter, and filter out dudes who don't meet you halfway.
Don't worry unless it's wednesday and you haven't heard from him . He may be doing family stuff all weekend, then scrambling to catch up on work, monday and tuesday. If he doesn't text you by end of day tuesday, send him one wednesday morning in case he is thinking it is now too late.
Yes, this! Give him time to get back from his trip and get caught back up. It is ok if things cool down a little after that intensity.
SHOOT guys I just realized:
He didn't say "time for some lord of the rings" as an invite. He meant - I was done being busy and was full of food and I now had time to watch it, seeing as I didn't get to do so last night.
Then I responded as if he were asking me to watch it with him.
WOOPS.
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