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I was afraid someone would say that. He's a really good catch and that's why sometimes I feel like he could be waiting for something better to come along.
Listen, I was being harsh, but it's a cold hard reality, but don't let yourself be treated any less. I mean, don't be a little doe, keep your head up and don't let him have the upper hand.
I'm not explaining this well..... keep your dignity....... treat yourself like you are a catch and let him know it....
You may be a fabulous person, I don't know you.....you just come off as sounding a bit desperate and that's the part I'm trying to address. It's like you're waiting for table scraps, try to not let that part come through to him. He may already sense it and also the 3 kids thing he may feel like he's holding all the cards.... IDK.......
I don't want to be mean here, but what guy wants to get involved with a woman with three different baby daddy type of woman....... He's the one on here that should be starting a thread........I'd run as fast as my legs could carry me........
I would be out of there faster than a fat kid at a dodgeball game. I am betting he is a hapless soul. This whole thing seems screwy. Or at the least a bad episode of the Jerry Springer show.
You must be smoking hot, and good in bed for a man to get involved with you well, 3 kids-3 daddies, obviously, you like to procreate.
@anyrate- Your chances are good *if you keep baby daddy-drama to a minimum, and keep him happy in the bedroom*
I would pass on a girl like that sorry no thanks I am sure she nice and all . On top of that you do not have custody of your kids and your a woman . That is a big red flag if the courts said your not fit to have them full time.
Facebook is the last of your problems. If I were that guy, I would run FAST! Three different baby daddies? Any man would be crazy to get involved in that. I would never date a woman with a kid that's not mine.
My wife and I are not facebook friends. We both are well aware of what goes on in our lives. We don't need no facebook to communicate. Some people live on that crap.
He may have other girls that's why he doesn't add you? It's a red flag. Can you imagine living without him? How do you value your self-respect over your happiness? If you're already happy where it's at, then there's no need to be asking for FB friendship. But if you want something more serious and really wants to test him, then do ask it from him, knowing that it may scare him off.
Sometimes, even being friends on FB is not enough.
Right before my GF saying yes to me, she asked not just to be friends on FB but also for me to give her my password on the spot. It's a big TEST. She first gave to me her FB password and then asked for mine. I gave it to her since I'm clean although I mentioned to her there were a lot of courting and flirting messages prior with other girls, understandably since we're not together yet.
Can I have not given her my password? Of course but I really like to prove to her that she's the only one. Right after that, she came in to my FB account like the CIA would and changed my profile pic with her pic, changed the background with our pic and basically marked her territory all over. She then went to her own FB account and changed her FB profile pic with mine; sort of reversed everything. It basically exposed us to all our family and friends that very instant, which is her intention. In a way I found it endearing what she did.
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well, 3 kids-3 daddies, obviously, you like to procreate.
