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Old 12-03-2013, 06:00 PM
 
Location: palmsprings
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Well, currently I am dating a former lesbian, although the experience is quite the same as dating a straight girl but the differences is way more interesting . We check out girls together when we go out , not in a perverted way but admiring way ? She would compliment the girls butt and tell me Dont I feel the same ? I of course say hell yes !
She would some times jump the gun to pay the meal or for the event. I have never let any girl pay for anything even if its just friends or an aquantance , so that is a first .
Sex is super good and more foreplay .


And last night I got my tires slashed by her exgf
(How do I deal with angry exgf??) If it was a angry exbf I would know how to handle it ...but this ? I need some advice
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Old 12-03-2013, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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What the hey is a "former lesbian"?
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Old 12-03-2013, 06:04 PM
 
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A "Former" Lesbian? Are you sure you're not just a quick distraction before she goes back to women?

Sue her in small claims court for the price of the tires and other related expenses and get a restraining order against her too.
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Old 12-03-2013, 06:04 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Well, currently I am dating a former lesbian, although the experience is quite the same as dating a straight girl but the differences is way more interesting . We check out girls together when we go out , not in a perverted way but admiring way ? She would compliment the girls butt and tell me Dont I feel the same ? I of course say hell yes !
She would some times jump the gun to pay the meal or for the event. I have never let any girl pay for anything even if its just friends or an aquantance , so that is a first .
Sex is super good and more foreplay .


And last night I got my tires slashed by her exgf
(How do I deal with angry exgf??) If it was a angry exbf I would know how to handle it ...but this ? I need some advice
She may be lying to you. I had a friend in college that would pretend to be a lesbian to pick up guys. Btw it worked every single time.
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Old 12-03-2013, 07:07 PM
 
Location: The Great West
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If she was really a lesbian then she wouldn't have just decided not to be one anymore. I don't believe in "former lesbians" or "former straight people" or whatever. That isn't how it works. She has either been straight all along, is bisexual, or is still a lesbian and is experimenting with dudes.
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Old 12-03-2013, 07:08 PM
 
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She may be lying to you. I had a friend in college that would pretend to be a lesbian to pick up guys. Btw it worked every single time.
I have news for her...

She could of just walked up to them and proclaimed her interest!
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Old 12-03-2013, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If she is anything like my lesbian friend she will go back to females.
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Old 12-03-2013, 08:14 PM
 
Location: USA
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She may have never had an experience with a man until you. I had a cousin who fit this profile. She came out as a Lesbian during High School, then I saw her at a family event with boyfriend in her early 20s.

All sorts of different shades.
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Old 12-03-2013, 08:16 PM
 
Location: Pa
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50 shades?
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Old 12-03-2013, 08:17 PM
 
Location: Louisiana
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Probably bi or just experimenting.

Former lesbian/gay doesn't exist, if you do say that, you were likely experimenting in the first place or you are bi and feel that you are "tired of x gender" for a while. W/o knowing her, I don't really now if she is authentic or not with you though, but keep what I said in mind if she does leave!

As far as handling the Ex, if you don't feel comfortable handling it, make her deal with her. It is her ex afterall.
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