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It doesnt matter what he does, the OP will lean on every word he says regardless. At this point, the OP should have told him to f off, and she shouldnt care one bit about what he says.
Instead, she is waiting for a phone call, and he again f's with her by not calling and texting her instead.
hahaha, it's kind of funny actually, in a sad kind of way.
That is the only situation that anyone would put up with being treated like total ****.
How this guy has anyone talking to him is totally amazing. Let alone a woman who actually cares about what he has to say.
Exactly and you make a good point (the bolded). No self respecting, confident woman would care about what he has to say and sit around waiting for him to respond.
OP, don't come off as "desperate" with this guy. He can sense it and which is probably why he talks to you the way he does.
Get rid of the guy.... He's not into you, or is immature, or just wants to play games. Whatever the case, he is not respecting you, so end it.
Tell him you're done and stop returning his calls. He may try to win you back - maybe just to feel like a "winner" or keep trying at that FIB situation, but he is disrespectful/uncaring toward you and I'd advise you to put a lot of space/time between the two of you.
So a guy I like and am"talking to" asked me if we could be friends with benefits yesterday. Then after I said no and got upset he said he wasn't serious when he said that. Later, I called him to discuss the matter and I told him I thought we should go on a date. He asked me where and I said I didnt care and then he said McDonalds? And I said no not there.
But you said you didn't care. Why did you lie?
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(Ps. Im not stupid.
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If you have any advice on how to get him to treat me better that would be helpful as well bc i cant seem to get him to and ive tried everything).
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I showed him what y'all said
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I texted him bc he was supposed to call me but he didnt...lol).
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I bet he is soooooooooooooo hot.
It doesnt matter what he does, the OP will lean on every word he says regardless. At this point, the OP should have told him to f off, and she shouldnt care one bit about what he says.
Instead, she is waiting for a phone call, and he again f's with her by not calling and texting her instead.
hahaha, it's kind of funny actually, in a sad kind of way.
That is the only situation that anyone would put up with being treated like total ****.
How this guy has anyone talking to him is totally amazing. Let alone a woman who actually cares about what he has to say.
I will guarantee you that the OP is young as well, and that's why this is being as blown up as it is. She wants justification for her behavior, and the capacity to say to this guy "look, other people agree with me!", thinking it will have any effect.
Why in hell on earth did you invite him over at 11:00 if you had no interest in being a FWB? That right there puzzles me a great deal. I think you sent a signal there that he will treat you the way are being treated by him because of the perimeters you did or didn't place on the situation. You dug your own grave with this one.
You can not make a guy value you. He either does or doesn't and there is no changing that. The best thing to do is just let him go and move on once you realize a guy is treating you like crap.
It doesnt matter what he does, the OP will lean on every word he says regardless. At this point, the OP should have told him to f off, and she shouldnt care one bit about what he says.
Instead, she is waiting for a phone call, and he again f's with her by not calling and texting her instead.
hahaha, it's kind of funny actually, in a sad kind of way.
That is the only situation that anyone would put up with being treated like total ****.
How this guy has anyone talking to him is totally amazing. Let alone a woman who actually cares about what he has to say.
Well. Hes adorable.
But for ur infomation...its not like that. We havnt been talking that long. Maybe a month. And there are a bunch of guys in my life that would easily take his place . Im not obsessed w him. Its not like that.
The problem is sometimes I really dont think he gets it. Like the 230 am thing. He REALLY HONESTLY DIDNT GET WHY I WAS MAD. I said its cause he doesnt treat me well and he really wanted me to explain it. Which I did but he still didnt thinm it was bad. Like not just saying that. He REALLY thought it wasnt bad. He was out w his friends after a football game (which is the biggest deal here) and he wasnt driving and he said that he said that he camme over lime he said he would so he didnt see the problem. He really didnt get it.
As far as the things hes says. I cant figure out why he says them. I really dont know.
And to be fair we r from different places. We grew up completely opposite. In completely opposite areas. At completely opposite school. With completely opposite parents. And we see things way different.and idk if its bc I hurt his feelings at some point. Once I told him I didnt want to talk anymore. Which was an over reaction. But the fight was bc we didnt understand each other bc we r from such different places. Like things that are normal to him, I couldnt even imagine. I think I do hurt his feelings sometimes. I dont want to, but I do. And now we r just in this cycle. So idk if hes saying it cause hes trying to protect himself like or if hes serious. And even if he isn't then I n ow its still not okay but then id work on it bc im not the nicest person myself...I over react and I am partly to blame. Its just if this is the case, I need him to communicate to me that this is the case.
And dont say we shouldn't be together bc we r different places. Thats part of the reason I like him. And thats a dumb reason not to b w sumone.
But like I said im not an idiot. If I thought he meant it then id never talk to him again and id go out w sumone else. But idk and I dont want leave wo knowing. Sometimes he says he cares and I believe him but then hell say the exact opposite. I want to know what he really feels and then ill do whatever based on that? But which one is for real...like I really dont. Im so confused.
And I just wanted him to see that im not crazy for getting mad when he says those things. Cause he thinks I get mad for no reason and I wanted yo show him that I dont get mad for no reason. That I hav a reason.
Why in hell on earth did you invite him over at 11:00 if you had no interest in being a FWB? That right there puzzles me a great deal. I think you sent a signal there that he will treat you the way are being treated by him because of the perimeters you did or didn't place on the situation. You dug your own grave with this one.
I invited him over at 11am, like lunch time. Idk if I said pm...but I meant am. And its not like that. I didn't explain it fully. We already sleep in the same bed. A lot. Its just its after we've been hanging out during the day. Not he just shows up at my door at 2 am...
Weve talked about having feelings for each other b4. A lot of times b4.
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