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Old 12-05-2013, 11:20 AM
 
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Originally posted at Mod cut: Sorry - no posting of links to competitor websites.

The point I want to get at is the comments. Nobody addresses the real issue, and that is today's female sexual strategy and the lengths some women will go to acheive it. She partied, hard, back in the day and completely lied to her husband about it. She lied so she could secure a man she was not that attracted to physically, but would provide and be there for her in the long run after partying like that was no longer socially acceptable or her looks no longer garnered the same level of response in men. . Probably much unlike any of the men she was truly attracted to in her past. She also likely knew that if he knew about her real past, the odds of her securing that long term security in a man, even one she wasn't that attracted to were slim.

It's a sad state of affairs really.

And it isn't even making these women happy in the long wrong. They end up with someone secure, yet they are marginally attracted to. In the end, they end up unhappy and unfullfilled or going as far as cheating / divorce.

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Old 12-05-2013, 11:41 AM
 
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It amazes me how so many inexperienced guys willingly buy the myth that women are perfectly happy being married to a man they don't love just for the $$$.

I hope someday they find themselves in a loveless relationship. They will realize that no amount of money makes up for that special kind of loneliness.
 
Old 12-05-2013, 11:52 AM
 
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It's not the 50's anymore. Most women don't need to marry a meal ticket. Get over it, OP.
 
Old 12-05-2013, 11:55 AM
 
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Originally Posted by zentropa View Post
It amazes me how so many inexperienced guys willingly buy the myth that women are perfectly happy being married to a man they don't love just for the $$$.

I hope someday they find themselves in a loveless relationship. They will realize that no amount of money makes up for that special kind of loneliness.
Lady, the op clearly states women do not end up happy that employ this strategy
 
Old 12-05-2013, 11:56 AM
 
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It's not the 50's anymore. Most women don't need to marry a meal ticket. Get over it, OP.
Another snap judgment. Not the point whatsoever, but good try.
 
Old 12-05-2013, 11:59 AM
 
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Lady, the op clearly states women do not end up happy that employ this strategy
So what exactly is your problem with it? I seems like everyone gets what they deserve in this scenario.

Mod cut: Off topic.

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Old 12-05-2013, 12:01 PM
 
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Them, bi***es!!!

<says quietly for white knight anger>
 
Old 12-05-2013, 12:01 PM
 
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It amazes me how so many inexperienced guys willingly buy the myth that women are perfectly happy being married to a man they don't love just for the $$$.

I hope someday they find themselves in a loveless relationship. They will realize that no amount of money makes up for that special kind of loneliness.
I have got to ask, what constitutes inexperienced? Not being married? I've gotten to know more women on an intimate level by my mid twenties than most men will in their entire lives. I have had a few loving LTRs and am currently in a fantastic one going on a year. So, because you are in you're forties, likely married, you think you have a broadened world view that bests anyone younger than you? Comical.
 
Old 12-05-2013, 12:03 PM
 
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So what exactly is your problem with it? I seems like everyone gets what they deserve in this scenario.

(and LMAO @ "Lady")
My problem is this poor guy, who was likely relatively sexually inexperienced in comparison to his wife, married a lie. Not only that, she was so obviously unattractted to him, his sex life was horrible. She tricked him so that after her partying was done and she could no longer leverage the fun with her looks fading, she would have security in a man for the rest of her life, or cash out with cash and prizes in divorce.

The biggest problem? This is sadly a common occurance.
 
Old 12-05-2013, 12:10 PM
 
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The biggest problem? This is sadly a common occurance.
Maybe in the Manosphere. Not in the real world.

You seem to think a guy being sexually inexperienced also means he is completely stupid.
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