I'm sorry my English and grammar isn't that great. English is one of my weakest subjects. I'm a twenty one year old female college student and I wouldn't consider myself desperate but I was feeling lonely and where I live it's hard to meet new people so then that I decided to go this dating app called POF. My intentions were to meet new people, interact and see were our conversations would take us. I wouldn't go on dates in person because I wasn't comfortable meeting them unless I felt it was an appropriate time. I meet this guy, tho I didn't like him at first but when we kept our conversations going it felt like we had a connection. After awhile we eventually did go on dates and everything was great. We been together for more then two months. At times however, I felt like I was doing all the work, I would text him first in the morning but if I didn't text him he wouldn't text me at all. I asked him what was going on, he told me he was stressed from school. He is graduating community college and transferring very soon and I understand that it's stressful. I wish he would communicate with me but he lacks in that department. Their came a time were we wouldn't talk for a weeks and if we did it would be one word conversations. I do miss talking to him but I didn't want to keep bugging him so I wouldn't text him. I would always check my phone and it was driving me insane because I shouldn't be so attached to him to the point that I was acting like a 15 year old. A few nights ago I was fed up because I felt like maybe he doesn't want to talk to me. I asked him if I should let him go, he said he doesn't know. I told him, "I already know the answer." He bluntly said we should be friends and once all his anxiety is gone we can work something out. I told him that's fine but deep down I told myself, I could drop this guy and move on to be with someone who wants to talk to me, or give him a chance wait it out. How could I go from barely talking too, as of now, not talking at all. I don't know if I could wait, it's making me crazy because I cared about this person but I just don't know what to do. I need advice, suggestions, I feel completely alone. I don't have much friends, okay no friends. I'm not close with my family, parents. Can someone help me,
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