Do women notice low self-esteem? (sexy, friends, therapist, social)

[Doomed_Shroom12]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

These skills are above average and should be enough to find a gf.



Yes, we spot low self-esteem immediately. It can sometimes be cute, but often a turn off.

I don't believe in therapy - been there, done that. Be your own therapist. Read books, research in the internet. Write down every day what you like about yourself until you believe it. Look at yourself in the mirror and find your "good parts". Everybody has them. Focus on them. If you have great eyes, try if you can play around with them a little, practise. If you have nice lips, practise cool smiles. If you have nice arms, define them more. If you can, maybe get contact lenses.
I know you work out, so keep doing that. A defined body and a nice haircut go a long way.

What she said.

[funymann]

This would mean not saying, "Would you like to go out... I mean, you probably wouldn't, I mean, I understand if you say no."

[canadian citizen]

Did any one notice how many times the OP used the word " I " , in his original thread starter ?

That in and of it's self, is a red flag, about his self worth issues.

OR its all a put on.

I'm leaning toward the joke side of it.

Jim B.

Toronto.

[jsun556]

Yes. They can sniff it out like sharks sniffing chum.

[TheHurricaneKid]

Originally Posted by canadian citizen

Did any one notice how many times the OP used the word " I " , in his original thread starter ?

That in and of it's self, is a red flag, about his self worth issues.

OR its all a put on.

I'm leaning toward the joke side of it.

Jim B.

Toronto.

I specifically used the word "I".
Do you think I would get a better response using a pronoun that describes a generic person?

[Thursday007]

Originally Posted by TheHurricaneKid

I specifically used the word "I".
Do you think I would get a better response using a pronoun that describes a generic person?

To be perfectly blunt, and I have said this in your other threads, you reek with stench of low self esteem.

[irish_bob]

the trick is to only go for women who also have low self esteem

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by somebodynew

Yes. One of the things that many people on this board don't get, particularly men it seems, that seeking a WOMAN as the end goal is, itself, an indicator of low self esteem, as if that acquisition fills some dead space. Fill your dead space within you and allow the resultant connection you have with people who share those interests, and the rest follows naturally, including someone's respect for you.

Yep. Saying "you complete me" sounds romantic in a movie, but its scarily codependent in real life. You should be a complete person already. If part of you isn't whole, it's unfair to expect someone else to fill the gaps for you.

[krieger00]

Originally Posted by irish_bob

the trick is to only go for women who also have low self esteem

Just find a girl with daddy issues and you be fine.

If every female had high self esteem thend who is going to dance at are strip clubs? Who is going to blow a goat on the internet for 50 bucks and then what am I going to watch on s Friday night?

[GravityMan]

Most women, men...heck even children easily and quickly notice when someone has low self-esteem. Even those who aren't sharp in some other areas.