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To be fair, if he's learnt to live with it and does so for the rest of his life he's done a pretty good job.
There's plenty of us on here who are in a similar situation, in our late 20s who have never been kissed, never been in a relationship, virgins etc and moan about it profusely (I'm not one of them ) but if you can learn to live with that prospect for the rest of your life, from your early 20s onwards and it doesn't bother you, then thats pretty good.
Because obviously there are some people not good enough to ever be in a relationship for whatever reason (not saying the op is one of them), but if the guy can accept now and cut his losses and lives happily, fair play to him.
I'd much rather see someone happily alone and sharing their opinions rather than someone who is depressed and in a relationship. So without snark, congrats on finding your own version of happiness and sticking to it.
I am 25 year old guy I absolutely don't believe in marriage and having kids and I am a guy who simply can't get attracted to any girl at all and I am not desperate for a relationship at all I have never been in love or a long term committed relationship and I will never change myself for anyone ever.
My question is Am i wrong to think that I want to be single till I die because I am a "ONE WOMAN MAN" and I have high standards for a girl and I am a person who has high principles, morals and values as a person and I know that there will never be any girl who would love me keep in mind that I don't want marriage and kids ever so does it by any means reduce my chance that no girl will love me after all "LOVE" and "MARRIAGE" are different things right?
I am not saying that I don't believe in love at all but i think It is unlikely in my case due to reasons best known to me but If at all one day if I love I will love only my dream girl who is worthy of me or else no girl at all so Am I wrong to think this way?
Knock yourself out, you are only affecting you and your life and honestly no one else really cares how you live your life and if you remain single or not.
Just try and refrain from complaing how alone and lonely you are in a few hours/day/weeks/months/years
since this is your choice and your choice alone for reason best known only by you.
If that's what you want, why do you care what anyone thinks? Do what you want. Be happy.
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It must be Friday night, we have the standard "I'll never like women" post from a 3 post wonder, followed a few posts later with another 3 post wonder offering understanding, explanation and support.
It must be Friday night, we have the standard "I'll never like women" post from a 3 post wonder, followed a few posts later with another 3 post wonder offering understanding, explanation and support.
I am 25 year old guy I absolutely don't believe in marriage and having kids and I am a guy who simply can't get attracted to any girl at all and I am not desperate for a relationship at all I have never been in love or a long term committed relationship and I will never change myself for anyone ever.
My question is Am i wrong to think that I want to be single till I die because I am a "ONE WOMAN MAN" and I have high standards for a girl and I am a person who has high principles, morals and values as a person and I know that there will never be any girl who would love me keep in mind that I don't want marriage and kids ever so does it by any means reduce my chance that no girl will love me after all "LOVE" and "MARRIAGE" are different things right?
I am not saying that I don't believe in love at all but i think It is unlikely in my case due to reasons best known to me but If at all one day if I love I will love only my dream girl who is worthy of me or else no girl at all so Am I wrong to think this way?
So, you have high standards, morals, principles, as you say. Well, join a church singles group. I'm sure your chances of finding a match there are higher. Or simply get more involved in church activities if you are already a member of a church.
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) but if you can learn to live with that prospect for the rest of your life, from your early 20s onwards and it doesn't bother you, then thats pretty good.
