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OP, as a guy who doesn't have very many friends (I have 2), I wouldn't care about a woman not having friends. It seems like depending on where someone lives, it's just really hard to meet new people and make friends. It's like people already have their social circle and they don't want anyone new in said circle of friends. If you really want to make friends though than you'd probably have to get out there and do things. If you don't like bars or partying than there's always volunteer work, or joining a social group that revolves around an activity or something you like. Just being alone at home all the time, you'll never make friends. It might help your confidence to just talk to people, and not even worry about if they're going to be your friend or not. If somebody doesn't want to be friends with you and your a good person, than it's their loss. If you're still in college, that could be a good place to talk to people. Do you ever get put in groups in any of your classes?
I'll be honest here..I don't have really many close friends. I hang with my sisters. It's enough for me. I'm at a different stage in my life than many of my friends(we are still friends, but they've moved off or we don't really see each other and hang out anymore), and many of my friends are still out there clubbing. If I were single, I would attempt to meet new people....classmates if in school, work mates, etc.
I rejected a guy last month (he wasn't my type and didn't hold my same values either; I'm only seeking my male counterpart) and he thought I'm a woman that has some friends, has been in several relationships but is now single and go out sometimes; he thought I was the typical woman and what is to be expected. I lied about it.
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Not sure if some men might mind this and find it kind of weird. Or do men generally don't care about this??
I wouldn't give it a second thought because I'm similar in many ways.
I find that almost every woman I've dated has defaulted to befriending my friend's so's, and that was her "friends". It's nice that my fiance' has friends of her own now, but that always intrigued me before.
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