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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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College? Sure, I was getting it, even with how incredible inept with women as I was, but not near as much as my 30s and early 40s. Freaking treasure trove years.
My boyfriend lived across the street from my college, and I had a key. I skipped way too much Sociology as a result. 7:30 a.m. lecture or sex? Let me think.
What are you talking about? Everyone I know got plenty. And I went to a single sex college. We made the most of road trips and townies. It was a no brainer.
As we've pointed out ad nauseum, it's different for women.
If you have resentment then you have regrets whether you believe in it or not.
Oh, I have resentment and regrets.
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Did you decide to not pursue sex or relationships? If you made that decision, and pursued other things, don't resent it. Living in the past isn't going to change it. Just make you depressed for no good reason in the present.
College? Sure, I was getting it, even with how incredible inept with women as I was, but not near as much as my 30s and early 40s. Freaking treasure trove years.
If you were getting it, you were not inept with women. The truly inept have no idea how to get any.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by Lucario
If you were getting it, you were not inept with women. The truly inept have no idea how to get any.
Oh, I was quite inept. Embarrassingly so. I only got with one woman from my college and that was junior year. There were others I slept with (three I knew from HS, and one of their friends), but they were as inept as I was. It's amazing what what two horny people can fall into despite crippling social idiocy. Heck, I didn't drink until senior year in college, that might have been my problem!
Now, if a person is so socially awkward that they don't have or can't maintain friendships, then it is understandable, but if you can have a friendship you can have a lover, especially at that age.
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