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Old 12-28-2013, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Old 12-28-2013, 06:19 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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We live in a society where a lot of your masculinity is judged
Real men don't care if we are judged. We carry ourselves with a clear conscience and confidence.
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Old 12-28-2013, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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Real men don't care if we are judged. We carry ourselves with a clear conscience and confidence.
Yup pretty much, same with women. Who gives a flying f how other guys or girls carry themselves! The more important thing is stop being so damn shallow! Women and men need to focus on personalities and not give up so easily when things get tough. Stop going after someone because they are the medias idea of sexy, they have money, or there credit is good....who cares!!
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Old 12-28-2013, 06:29 PM
 
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Real men don't care if we are judged. We carry ourselves with a clear conscience and confidence.
Real men stand up and pee!!! Yay!!!!
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Old 12-28-2013, 09:51 PM
 
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Yup pretty much, same with women. Who gives a flying f how other guys or girls carry themselves! The more important thing is stop being so damn shallow! Women and men need to focus on personalities and not give up so easily when things get tough. Stop going after someone because they are the medias idea of sexy, they have money,
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or there credit is good....who cares!!
Wait, what?

Your credit score is a measure of your personality. Do you think things through, plan for unforseen problems, keep your word? Or do you say whatever you have to say to get what you want, and worry about keeping your agreements (or not keeping them) later?
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Old 12-28-2013, 10:05 PM
 
Location: If I tell you, will you visit?
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Yup pretty much, same with women. Who gives a flying f how other guys or girls carry themselves! The more important thing is stop being so damn shallow! Women and men need to focus on personalities and not give up so easily when things get tough. Stop going after someone because they are the medias idea of sexy, they have money, or there credit is good....who cares!!
I care! I am not going to be attracted to a woman who is looking like she has self esteem issues and I would expect a woman who respects herself will feel the same way. Trust me, if you look through my dating repertoire, you will see a heavy trend that proves that I am not person who invests a lot in looks. I'm not sure if you think I was attacking anybody, that wasn't my intention.

If you consider yourself honorable and kind. You fulfill all obligations to yourself first, then why would you care how people judge you. It wouldn't be something you are concerned with.
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Old 12-29-2013, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Arizona
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Exactly!!



Wait, what?

Your credit score is a measure of your personality. Do you think things through, plan for unforseen problems, keep your word? Or do you say whatever you have to say to get what you want, and worry about keeping your agreements (or not keeping them) later?
Your credit score is a dumb reason to look for someone. How can you measure someones personality that has a poor credit score. In this day and age with so many struggling why would that be a determining factor? What about someone with a good credit score, maybe they only have one thing on their credit and really haven't been challenged.

All I'm saying is you may not know what that person has been through and by judging them off of their credit score before you get to know them seems shallow.
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Old 12-29-2013, 10:40 AM
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sheeeeit sista, same goes for women
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