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Old 01-14-2014, 11:54 PM
 
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Which of these is the less of two evils?
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Old 01-14-2014, 11:59 PM
 
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Which of these is the less of two evils?
Be yourself.
Both of these guys can find a girl with mutual interest.

But if this guy is so quiet of course he should to try to talk with somebody even he says awkward stuff.

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Old 01-15-2014, 01:48 AM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Which of these is the less of two evils?

where do you guys come up with this stuff?
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Old 01-15-2014, 01:53 AM
 
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Which of these is the less of two evils?
If he can get girls attention to begin with somehow and pay attention to/listen her, it's 100 times better to be quiet.
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Old 01-15-2014, 04:33 AM
 
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If he can get girls attention to begin with somehow and pay attention to/listen her, it's 100 times better to be quiet.
Yup. Women love to talk and if you listen to all their banter, they'll think that you're really into them.
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Old 01-15-2014, 05:00 AM
 
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Which of these is the less of two evils?
Go with the flow.
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Old 01-15-2014, 05:00 AM
 
Location: NY
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I would think creating awkward conversation would be far worse than just being on the quiet side.

It's as if the real question here would be "is it better to be shy or creepy?"
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Old 01-15-2014, 07:19 AM
 
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Which of these is the less of two evils?
I'm a quiet docile introverted guy. I just be myself and I accept myself for who I am. If a woman or people in general can't accept me, they can exit stage right.
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Old 01-15-2014, 07:25 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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You need to be yourself and when you meet the right woman she'll appreciate you for who you are. My husband is a shy, quiet guy, but when he does talk it's usually on point. He has incredible insights. He sees the world differently than I do and it's usually thought provoking. I'm the opposite, I can talk to anyone and am extremely outgoing. I appreciate both types of people in my life. I'd say being a good listener and making pertinent comments is a wonderful thing. Best wishes.
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Old 01-15-2014, 08:36 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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"Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt."
~Abraham Lincoln
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