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So as of recently my ex boyfriend and I broke up and though it may sound naive but, I believe he was my soulmate and I'm not ready to give up.
So pretty much one night he came home late from the bar after telling me he'd be home 3 hours earlier I told him I was upset because I hate waiting up for him this lead to a big argument and the next day he dumped me.
He says that I depend on him too much and he can't deal with me being sad all the time.
We moved in only after we had been dating 4 months though so that added on a lot of extra stress.
Because of the break up I've been forced to move back to my parents, but i'm moving back to the same city as him in early january.
I know i'm not giving you guys a whole lot of information and I'm making this sound like i'm a love struck 14 year old but I swear I'm not!
I just need advice on how or if there's a way to let him know I still think about him everyday, that I miss him, and I'm not ready to give up, without sounding pathetic and needy.
I just care so much about him.
Sorry, but there is no way for you to let him know that you're thinking about him obsessively without coming across as pathetic and needy.
If he cared about you even a fraction of how you feel, he wouldn't be an ex. Instead, he would have respected your feelings about coming home late without the courtesy of a call or text to let you know. You may think he was your soul mate, but I kind of doubt it, at least, he didn't behave like he was.
As to the posters that have a problem that the OP stayed up waiting for him.... really? Your significant other is not home when they said they would be and you would just go to bed without a care in the world? Really?
So as of recently my ex boyfriend and I broke up and though it may sound naive but, I believe he was my soulmate and I'm not ready to give up.
So pretty much one night he came home late from the bar after telling me he'd be home 3 hours earlier I told him I was upset because I hate waiting up for him this lead to a big argument and the next day he dumped me.
He says that I depend on him too much and he can't deal with me being sad all the time.
We moved in only after we had been dating 4 months though so that added on a lot of extra stress.
Because of the break up I've been forced to move back to my parents, but i'm moving back to the same city as him in early january.
I know i'm not giving you guys a whole lot of information and I'm making this sound like i'm a love struck 14 year old but I swear I'm not!
I just need advice on how or if there's a way to let him know I still think about him everyday, that I miss him, and I'm not ready to give up, without sounding pathetic and needy.
I just care so much about him.
This is the way I look at it. If he missed you and wanted you back in his life you would have heard from him by now, but your haven't. That tells me he has moved on with his life and you probably should as well.
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