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Apparently it was what the ex wanted. He said he just do what the ex basically wanted. He said their son was adopted by the ex's current husband. But this is the same guy who abandoned me and kick me to the curb when we had a pregnancy scare at our age we are in our 40s. We almost divorced coz of it. So yeah red flag is all out in the open 2 months into our marriage.
Huge red flag...
Why did you have a pregnancy scare when he already had a vasectomy or was this before? Bigger question why did you marry or are you still married to someone capable of abandoning his seed and now abandoning you? Not saying you should divorce no just sincerely wondering what kept your there especially as a woman in her 40's.
Huge red flag...
Why did you have a pregnancy scare when he already had a vasectomy or was this before? Bigger question why did you marry or are you still married to someone capable of abandoning his seed and now abandoning you? Not saying you should divorce no just sincerely wondering what kept your there especially as a woman in her 40's.
It was before vasectomy. In fairness before we got married his only one condition to me is that he does not want kids anymore. That I should think long and hard that if I do marry him. I won't be a mom.
Crazy thing was we are already married when the condom burst. So that's why I told him it made me realize that being married does not guarantee that the baby will be taken care of by the father.
Before I got back with him my only one condition is that he gets vasectomy. Which he did. That 'drama' happened 2 months into our marriage. Now we are a month short of our 1st wedding anniversary.
I admit though that event in our life does still bother me. And him talking about the ex. Apart from that we are okay oh I also told him I hate when he is grumpy . He said he hates when he is grumpy too. Other than that the marriage is liveable.
Christ on a cracker. Too many red flags waving here.
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Christ on a cracker. Too many red flags waving here.
^^^ This. That's why it pays to read a whole thread before replying. I was all set to give a thoughtful reply about how you can't expect someone to not ever discuss a certain time period in their lives, but now, talking about an ex-spouse is not even relevant to the OP's real issues.
It was before vasectomy. In fairness before we got married his only one condition to me is that he does not want kids anymore. That I should think long and hard that if I do marry him. I won't be a mom.
Crazy thing was we are already married when the condom burst. So that's why I told him it made me realize that being married does not guarantee that the baby will be taken care of by the father.
Before I got back with him my only one condition is that he gets vasectomy. Which he did. That 'drama' happened 2 months into our marriage. Now we are a month short of our 1st wedding anniversary.
I admit though that event in our life does still bother me. And him talking about the ex. Apart from that we are okay oh I also told him I hate when he is grumpy . He said he hates when he is grumpy too. Other than that the marriage is liveable.
Yes I married him within only 2 months of dating.
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Meaning is also AngelinaJolie (the screen name not the actress)and MsValentine. Also if I recall her husband (or maybe it was her pretending to be him)created a screen name as well. Anyway, a man wanting to dump her after a pregnancy scare and having no relationship with his son is a huge red flag.
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