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Old 12-30-2013, 01:35 AM
 
Location: Australia
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...with a woman who only believes in having sex inside committed, long term relationships?
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Old 12-30-2013, 01:39 AM
 
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A few weeks, after that I will feel like im being played, unless she is one of the few genuine Christian women who did not drop her pants for ANYONE in the past early on and does not have anyone else on the side, nor has she ever had anyone else on the side in the past.

Because that is so rare these days and I feel like im not the best judge of character I wont wait a terribly long time for fear that she is friend zoning me but wants to keep me on the line just in case.
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Old 12-30-2013, 09:06 AM
 
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A few weeks, after that I will feel like im being played, unless she is one of the few genuine Christian women who did not drop her pants for ANYONE in the past early on and does not have anyone else on the side, nor has she ever had anyone else on the side in the past.
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And how would you know that? Just curious.
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Old 12-30-2013, 09:08 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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...with a woman who only believes in having sex inside committed, long term relationships?

I don't date these people. I wouldn't commit to someone before knowing if we're sexually compatible.
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Old 12-30-2013, 09:13 AM
 
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I don't date these people. I wouldn't commit to someone before knowing if we're sexually compatible.
I'm curious how you define "commit". Are you referring to living together? Marriage? Exclusivity in dating?
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Old 12-30-2013, 09:17 AM
 
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I don't date these people. I wouldn't commit to someone before knowing if we're sexually compatible.

what if you really like them in every other sense ?
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Old 12-30-2013, 09:38 AM
 
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A few weeks, after that I will feel like im being played, unless she is one of the few genuine Christian women who did not drop her pants for ANYONE in the past early on and does not have anyone else on the side, nor has she ever had anyone else on the side in the past.
These type of women are extremely rare.
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Old 12-30-2013, 09:43 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I know this is addressed to men. I have come across one man who wanted to wait five to six dates before having sex. He's one of the rare types that really only seek out long term relationships and is not into casual sex or dating.
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Old 12-30-2013, 09:58 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I'm curious how you define "commit". Are you referring to living together? Marriage? Exclusivity in dating?

Exclusivity: BF/GF

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what if you really like them in every other sense ?
Then great. I hope we're sexually compatible. But I'm not going to be in a committed relationship with someone where we have mediocre or bad sex.
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Old 12-30-2013, 10:06 AM
 
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I know this is addressed to men. I have come across one man who wanted to wait five to six dates before having sex. He's one of the rare types that really only seek out long term relationships and is not into casual sex or dating.
What if you're into casual sex and dating IN a LTR? hehe
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