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I'm really thinking this guy has to be a troll, its nonsensical how he has the gall to accuse others of being one-sided.
Eh, he's probably just another returning banned member. I think they're just gluttons for punishment...and there's usually a surge when one of the threads here is posted on 'manosphere' blogs.
I am closer to 40 than I am 30 and let me tell you I had to have a friend from out of state come and help me get through the pain of turning 30 I cried all night and day!. Sure some things are different..hangovers, less energy, having to work out to keep those extra pounds off. I am seeing now 40 may be the big one that actually pushes me over the edge! I don't think it's old it's just the feeling of what has happened to all the time! it's just moving way too fast. I would give anything to be about to turn 30 again. I am a guy so I don't know if that makes any difference at all but just thinking about this makes me nervous!
I'm really thinking this guy has to be a troll, its nonsensical how he has the gall to accuse others of being one-sided.
Maybe he's better off sticking with men (or his hand) since women tend to make him so angry and bitter.
Baaaahahahaha.
This is truly a laugh. You're both currently posting on the other thread about how women are justified in being angry and bitter, due to getting played.
But, that's the way our society is now....man = bad, woman = good.
This is truly a laugh. You're both currently posting on the other thread about how women are justified in being angry and bitter, due to getting played.
But, that's the way our society is now....man = bad, woman = good.
Yes yes yes, we all hate men, men are evil blah blah blah.
I just texted my bf to tell him how awesome he is and how lucky I am to have him in my life.
__________________________________________________ ___________________________________Original poster: If you haven't even turned 30 yet and you are complaining I suggest a few things.
First, by this age you should already have learned to not drink so much that you have a hang over.
Last, I hate to see what you think about turning 60 if you think 30 is old.
I just turned 30 last month and I admit to feeling bummed about it. I haven't done all that I wanted to do in my 20s, although I am mostly okay with where I am at. It's not like there is not time to do more, but sometimes I don't think I took advantage of being young with energy. I feel energy loss now, and I was never an energetic person to begin with.
I like myself as a person much more now though, which is a huge improvement. I'm more of a well-rounded person - not so terribly shy & bookish.
However, in the social circle I am in, most women my age are married, with kids, some already divorced . I am glad not to be the latter & don't desire to have kids, but am feeling the "old maid" thing despite not looking or acting it. It's not about keeping up with others' timelines so much as my own idea of where I'd be at 30. I also notice people treat me as if younger because I haven't had certain milestones; it's as if I am stuck at 22 because of my life circumstances, not an adult woman like women in relationships and/or with children. It's like some weird mix of perpetual teenager and spinster.
I'm also starting to see age in myself. It's minor (mostly looking "tired" more easily & not quite as firm in the booty), but I know what I looked like in my early 20s & what I look like now. It feels kind of a waste to have once been quite pretty but rarely involved romantically with anyone. Even if I were to be in an LTR or get married now, it's like my physical prime was never appreciated by anyone. I have zero interest in casual flings, so the idea of being pursued just as much as you get older is not comforting. I'm even more boring than ever in terms of just wanting to be monogamous with one person. I don't want to settle down & pop kids out, but more like someone to explore life with, because doing stuff alone all the time gets de-motivating.
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. I am glad not to be the latter & don't desire to have kids, but am feeling the "old maid" thing despite not looking or acting it. It's not about keeping up with others' timelines so much as my own idea of where I'd be at 30. I also notice people treat me as if younger because I haven't had certain milestones; it's as if I am stuck at 22 because of my life circumstances, not an adult woman like women in relationships and/or with children. It's like some weird mix of perpetual teenager and spinster. 
