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my exboyfriend and I got back together. He has an exgirlfriend visiting town who will want to see him when she is here. I am of the opinion this woman contributed greatly to our break up. He admits she did in an indirect way. I do not want him to see her. He stated he wanted to continue communication with her on social media when we got back together. I wasn't happy with that but we went forward anyway. He has stated to me he understands she is not trustworthy and he does not want her back. He trusts me. This is the compromise , he can see her briefly but not in a private place. I don't want him seeing her at all where he has no problem with it. So that is what we agreed upon. Just looking for opinions.
Eh. Why are you asking random people on the net? Seems to me like you and your boyfriend's opinions are the only ones that ought to count, and if you still have some unresolved issues with the compromise you've reached, you should discuss it with *him* instead of us.
Sounds a bit odd to me, but on the other hand it sounds like you've got him on a tight leash on the subject, so who knows..... I'd question why after a breakup he wants to keep in contact so badly... usually you need time away for a good while and then maybe be friendly.....
Eh. Why are you asking random people on the net? Seems to me like you and your boyfriend's opinions are the only ones that ought to count, and if you still have some unresolved issues with the compromise you've reached, you should discuss it with *him* instead of us.
Because this is a relationship forum and people ask each other for guidance and help all the time on these things! Sheesh
OP- i think you are correct to be suspicious. Why does he need to have any contact at all? Did they have a child together or something?
No child. He is friends with a lot of exgirlfriends. She said she was pregnant when they were together and there has been 2 different stories as to what happened to the child- abortion, miscarriage. She is not an honest person.
No child. He is friends with a lot of exgirlfriends. She said she was pregnant when they were together and there has been 2 different stories as to what happened to the child- abortion, miscarriage. She is not an honest person.
Why subject yourself to his nonsense? The potential mate pool is vast and can be rewarding. Get yourself some self esteem and boot his game playing butt to the curb already.
Nobody "needs" to be in contact with their ex if they don't have kids together. That is ridiculous.
Why do you need to compromise on this? I mean, good God, you and he both admit she was one of the reasons you broke up before. I would say no way.
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