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You're the only one who knows it. I am guessing you want to turn this thing with your BF into a LTR as quickly as possible, given your other posts and threads.
I dunno if this is the way to do it, but I wish you good luck.
I was just wondering what his friends were thinking that our first meeting was at a strip club so I was asking for guys opinion. I guess alot of female responded and did not like what I did and criticized me for doing something I wanted to do and had fun doing. I will do it again if I was given a chance. Other people should try it atleast once.
I was just wondering what his friends were thinking that our first meeting was at a strip club so I was asking for guys opinion. I guess alot of female responded and did not like what I did and criticized me for doing something I wanted to do and had fun doing. I will do it again if I was given a chance. Other people should try it atleast once.
I think more people were critical of the idea that you would be trying to impress people you don't know by going to a strip club (and getting a private lap dance)... not that you went to one in the first place.
I have observed that you tend to pretty much do whatever you said you were gonna do anyway, and that you disregard the advice of people who go against what say you want to do. (see: spending a ton of cash on a new bf for Christmas)
Sooo... what motivates you to ask, then?
That would be interesting to know.
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I think more people were critical of the idea that you would be trying to impress people you don't know by going to a strip club (and getting a private lap dance)... not that you went to one in the first place.
I have observed that you tend to pretty much do whatever you said you were gonna do anyway, and that you disregard the advice of people who go against what say you want to do. (see: spending a ton of cash on a new bf for Christmas)
Sooo... what motivates you to ask, then?
That would be interesting to know.
I was wondering the same thing and what the purpose of this thread was.
I think more people were critical of the idea that you would be trying to impress people you don't know by going to a strip club (and getting a private lap dance)... not that you went to one in the first place.
I have observed that you tend to pretty much do whatever you said you were gonna do anyway, and that you disregard the advice of people who go against what say you want to do. (see: spending a ton of cash on a new bf for Christmas)
Sooo... what motivates you to ask, then?
That would be interesting to know.
I hate to quote myself:
I would hope so but let's face it, a lot of the people who post aren't really seeking help/answers/ideas but are instead looking for validation: "I don't like girls/boys", "I can't date during college", etc. Then when someone offers a suggestion they want to argue and tell you why you're wrong in their case
I think more people were critical of the idea that you would be trying to impress people you don't know by going to a strip club (and getting a private lap dance)... not that you went to one in the first place.
I have observed that you tend to pretty much do whatever you said you were gonna do anyway, and that you disregard the advice of people who go against what say you want to do. (see: spending a ton of cash on a new bf for Christmas)
Sooo... what motivates you to ask, then?
That would be interesting to know.
I did not go to impress anyone. I went because I wanted to. I let a girl gave me a lapdance because I wanted to. Just like what you said, I do the things I want ...thats just me. Noone can convince me to go to a strip club if I didnt want to. Just like noone can convince me to do something I didnt want.
I did not ask for an advice or opinion if I did or did not do the right thing. I came here asking guys opinion if meeting friends at a strip bar can possibly leave a good first impression.
If you had just told us at the beginning that you were bisexual and wanted to experience another woman in a strip club environment, this thread might have turned out quite differently.
I did not go to impress anyone. I went because I wanted to. I let a girl gave me a lapdance because I wanted to. Just like what you said, I do the things I want ...thats just me. Noone can convince me to go to a strip club if I didnt want to. Just like noone can convince me to do something I didnt want.
I did not ask for an advice or opinion if I did or did not do the right thing. I came here asking guys opinion if meeting friends at a strip bar can possibly leave a good first impression.
The point is when you post on a public forum you usually get what you did not ask for.
You have been answered numerous times on this thread about this topic and on your other thread about the expensive gift for the boyfriend.
It is your life go and do what you want to do and quit posting on a public forum if you really do not want to read the replies to your non advice, non opinion wanted question.
**I think it is time to shower and find something for supper**
I did not go to impress anyone. I went because I wanted to. I let a girl gave me a lapdance because I wanted to. Just like what you said, I do the things I want ...thats just me. Noone can convince me to go to a strip club if I didnt want to. Just like noone can convince me to do something I didnt want.
I did not ask for an advice or opinion if I did or did not do the right thing. I came here asking guys opinion if meeting friends at a strip bar can possibly leave a good first impression.
Okay...
Could it leave a good first impression? Possibly.
Will it definitely leave good first impression? Not likely.
Could it have made them think less of you? Absolutely.
There ya go.
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I would hope so but let's face it, a lot of the people who post aren't really seeking help/answers/ideas but are instead looking for validation: "I don't like girls/boys", "I can't date during college", etc. Then when someone offers a suggestion they want to argue and tell you why you're wrong in their case
yeah... that was a good post. It was worthy of a quote.
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