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Did you "have fun," or did you get a temporary high from all the positive attention from the gang and all the so-called cool GF points?
Yeah, a lot of men work the "cool GF" thing to their advantage..... same goes with femimsim they twisted that shyt around to benefit them.... you follow me???
Well, of course the gang won't tell you it made a bad impression because they all, including your BF, got what they wanted.
They all planned (without you) to go to the strip club. He told you, in earnest but also probably pre-flinching from the anticipated pushback from you. Much to his relief, you consented.
And you continued to consent all through the night. Yay! What a cool girl! She's like one of the bros!
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Originally Posted by augiedogie
Seems like a lot of folks are kind of naive about the popularity of having multiple sex partners. Look at the forums on POF, and you'll find all kinds of people who have tried threesomes. There are clubs, resorts, cruises all dedicated to the "lifestyle". My guess is this woman's bf was trying to break down her inhibitions. Now its a smaller step to a threesome, and once you get a door open to multiples, where does it stop? If you check out craigslist under casual relationships you find all kinds of folks in your local area "in to it".
Poly, open relationships, nudist resorts, swingers are all over the place. So what? Lighten up. Don't know too many people that hasn't done a threesome or two in their lives. Lighten up some and have some fun. They weren't my thing, but I had some cool experiences (and some bad ones), and I don't regret them. I would have regretted never trying something.
Did you "have fun," or did you get a temporary high from all the positive attention from the gang and all the so-called cool GF points?
Honestly, I had a great time. The girl who gave me a lapdance was awesome. I did not feel uncomfortable at all. I actually applaud my bf for taking me there. Out of all the guys Ive dated and I asked each one of them to take me to a strip club no one exept my bf did. It was a fun experience and everybody had a great time! They joke and teased me alot but Im the same way I joke alot too so I dont get offended easily. I made them laugh because I laughed at their jokes and I came back with better ones. I had a great time because I was being myself. I didnt have to pretend that I did not enjoy going to a strip club and hanging out with boys.
Seems like a lot of folks are kind of naive about the popularity of having multiple sex partners. Look at the forums on POF, and you'll find all kinds of people who have tried threesomes. There are clubs, resorts, cruises all dedicated to the "lifestyle". My guess is this woman's bf was trying to break down her inhibitions. Now its a smaller step to a threesome, and once you get a door open to multiples, where does it stop? If you check out craigslist under casual relationships you find all kinds of folks in your local area "in to it".
I've never had a threesome and I'm 28. I guess I'm just the "odd woman" out. But I definitely agree with the bolded.
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Originally Posted by Missnoname
Just to clarify, it was my idea to go with my bf but since his buddies wanted to go too they invited me to come along so I went. What I did wasnt against my instinct and definitely im not desperate. The lap dance was something I wanted to try and my bf or his friends paid for it so why not? I had a great time and it was a different experience. Like I said I would do it again. I did not regret my decision to go.
I don't know, but what I am getting from this is that since they paid it was okay? Correct me if I'm wrong.
Of course, in your OP, you never said anything about how you have been begging BFs all these years to take you to a strip club. You only said THEY planned to go.
Well, of course the gang won't tell you it made a bad impression because they all, including your BF, got what they wanted.
They all planned (without you) to go to the strip club. He told you, in earnest but also probably pre-flinching from the anticipated pushback from you. Much to his relief, you consented.
And you continued to consent all through the night. Yay! What a cool girl! She's like one of the bros!
Except you're not one of the bros. Are you?
Consider this advice, and Chow's carefully. It reminds me of a memoir I read called "The Only Girl in the Car." It did not turn out well for her being the "cool girl" around a bunch of young guys.
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