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This made me shudder. You have just met your boyfriend's friends for the first time and their lasting impression of you will be that you're a tart. I hope you are proud of yourself for acting like this. Too much watching Miley the Skank methinks
LOL, Don't get me started on her.... she's a talentless hack... that "performance" she did at the awards show a while back... good lord, was it awful....I still have nightmares about that silly little girl with her tongue flailing around like that... where did she pull that f ing move from cause it was awful and she kept doing it and doing it and doing it..........
If you're going to wh&re yourself out there, at least have a little talent on the side.....
I think the OP is walking a very thin line here. While I understand that most young men, and some women, will go to a strip club once or twice in their lives to see what it's all about, I'd hesitate to date a guy who is a regular in one of these places. It's a pretty seedy existence.
Take a broader look at this guy's habits and what he and his friends value in a woman. Do you want to be like this? You're painfully naive if you think this is a healthy practice.
Do as you please, of course, but don't expect any sympathy when you find yourself far down a slippery slope when you finally come to your senses.
Eh, she's still riding the fun wave. It happens. I almost overshared to the Starbucks guy this morning.
Oh trust me, I am no Mother Theresa when it comes to these types of things, but there is a time and place for it. A private lapdance with just her boyfriend watching would have been perfectly acceptable and titillating, but she was meeting his friends for the first time. First impressions count.
Please do not blame my bf, it was my idea to go to a strip club. I went knowing his friends were there. I went knowing I will be surrounded by girls who are naked. Im very comfortable with my body and how I look. These girls never made me feel intimidated. I know my bf would look but would never be with them. Someone on here said I keep making the wrong decisions and I dont understabd why if my bf and I have a great relationship.
Please do not blame my bf, it was my idea to go to a strip club. I went knowing his friends were there. I went knowing I will be surrounded by girls who are naked. Im very comfortable with my body and how I look. These girls never made me feel intimidated. I know my bf would look but would never be with them. Someone on here said I keep making the wrong decisions and I dont understabd why if my bf and I have a great relationship.
I'm not blaming your boyfriend, I am blaming you for being really stupid. You had never met these guys before and they're egging you on to have a pseudo lesbian session. Think child, think
I think the OP is walking a very thin line here. While I understand that most young men, and some women, will go to a strip club once or twice in their lives to see what it's all about, I'd hesitate to date a guy who is a regular in one of these places. It's a pretty seedy existence.
Take a broader look at this guy's habits and what he and his friends value in a woman. Do you want to be like this? You're painfully naive if you think this is a healthy practice.
Do as you please, of course, but don't expect any sympathy when you find yourself far down a slippery slope when you finally come to your senses.
Like I said it was my idea to go to a strip club. Blame it on me why they were there on NYE.
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I think the OP is walking a very thin line here. While I understand that most young men, and some women, will go to a strip club once or twice in their lives to see what it's all about, I'd hesitate to date a guy who is a regular in one of these places. It's a pretty seedy existence.
It was NYE. I suppose if there is a time to go, it would be a day like that.
Or Easter... for the candy.
Strip clubs are pretty idiotic though. Silly wastes of money. I've know a couple of women that did it part time for fun and they laughed their asses off at the dudes wasting their money on them.
So what is the purpose of this thread? If you are perfectly comfortable hanging out at a strip club with a bunch of horny guys you just met and letting them buy you a lap dance, what is the problem?
Like some other posters, I think she feels the need to question most everything she does in a relationship. It's peculiar.
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So what is the purpose of this thread? If you are perfectly comfortable hanging out at a strip club with a bunch of horny guys you just met and letting them buy you a lap dance, what is the problem?
Can't that be said for 90% of the threads on here? They already know what they believe, ask away, and then disagree with other opinions?
Please do not blame my bf, it was my idea to go to a strip club. I went knowing his friends were there. I went knowing I will be surrounded by girls who are naked. Im very comfortable with my body and how I look. These girls never made me feel intimidated. I know my bf would look but would never be with them. Someone on here said I keep making the wrong decisions and I dont understabd why if my bf and I have a great relationship.
Wow. You have completely missed the point that a dozen posters are making. Are you always this obtuse?
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