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Old 01-01-2014, 06:39 PM
 
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So you're saying that women should only date men that other women wouldn't want. Got it.
Not really.

Although I would not want a super hot woman. I'd constantly have to deal with douchebags trying to hit on her. That's a pain I don't want to deal with.

But what I really meant is that women are just as much to blame if not more, because they willingly screw around with taken men all the time.

It always takes 2 to tango. So, it's usually the other woman who throws herself at the man.

There are some dogs who actively chase tail when in a committed relationship, but rarer I'd say.
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Old 01-01-2014, 06:49 PM
 
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Not really.

Although I would not want a super hot woman. I'd constantly have to deal with douchebags trying to hit on her. That's a pain I don't want to deal with.

But what I really meant is that women are just as much to blame if not more, because they willingly screw around with taken men all the time.

It always takes 2 to tango. So, it's usually the other woman who throws herself at the man.

There are some dogs who actively chase tail when in a committed relationship, but rarer I'd say.
I've actually heard that men don't want super hot women because they apparently are more drama and a bit cray cray.
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Old 01-01-2014, 06:53 PM
 
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Not really.

Although I would not want a super hot woman. I'd constantly have to deal with douchebags trying to hit on her. That's a pain I don't want to deal with.

But what I really meant is that women are just as much to blame if not more, because they willingly screw around with taken men all the time.

It always takes 2 to tango. So, it's usually the other woman who throws herself at the man.

There are some dogs who actively chase tail when in a committed relationship, but rarer I'd say.
While there are definitely women out there who go after married men, I think it's unfair to say that's how it usually happens.
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Old 01-01-2014, 07:04 PM
 
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While there are definitely women out there who go after married men, I think it's unfair to say that's how it usually happens.
In most of the cases I know, it was. Marriage and bf/gf.

But also, women are more likely to be attracted to the type of men who would do such a thing.

I mean really the thread is dumb because every time a man cheats, there is a willing other woman on the other end.
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Old 01-01-2014, 07:09 PM
 
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I mean really the thread is dumb because every time a man cheats, there is a willing other woman on the other end.
No, sometimes they cheat with men too.
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Old 01-01-2014, 07:26 PM
 
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While there are definitely women out there who go after married men, I think it's unfair to say that's how it usually happens.
It happens fairly often from my experience, and I've never encouraged it.


Very few men will cheat when in a loving relationship and having their sexual needs met. Very few women will cheat in the same circumstances. A bad relationship invites infidelity.

My first marriage was not a good one, and I always said that most people would cheat given the right set of circumstances -- timing and opportunity. There were times I would have and times I could have, but there were never times I would have AND could have that coincided with each other.

I often looked at women, however, and let my mind wander. Like Jimmy Carter, "I cheated in my heart."

Then, after divorcing my first wife, I married again. This marriage was great. My wife and I loved each other like I never knew was possible, and the sex was regular and fantastic. During that time I never even LOOKED at other women. That too was new to me.

So ladies and gentlemen, if you want your spouse to remain true to you, treat them with love and respect, and keep them happy. I'd guess if you can do that, the chances of your spouse cheating on you will remain very, very low.
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