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Old 01-03-2014, 04:41 PM
 
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So it is every woman's fault that you are a liar, cheat, a sneak and have a bad reputation that you have earned all by yourself because you feel the need to be 'entertained' by more than one woman?

That is rich......seriously
It's not every woman's fault since I don't hit on married women. But a certain group of women could be more open minded. Still, I want to change, like I've said.
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Old 01-04-2014, 01:58 AM
 
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Old 01-04-2014, 02:29 AM
 
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You seriously need to join a swingers club. Glad to know though women are not being a made a fool by you anymore in fact it's you who look like a fool. Were you not hugged by your parents as a child? Something is seriously wrong with you. Wow. 40 and still on a prowl...yuck.
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Old 01-04-2014, 03:46 AM
 
Location: Australia
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It's not every woman's fault since I don't hit on married women. But a certain group of women could be more open minded. Still, I want to change, like I've said.
"Open-minded"? Women do not owe you no-strings-attached sex!

Open-minded to what? Being lied to? Being cheated on? Being manipulated? Being infected with STDs? Being a single mother to an unwanted child by a deadbeat?

You think it's hard to attract women now? Just wait in a few years when your hair starts falling out. Have fun trying to convince women to have sex with your sorry butt. I hope you spend the rest of your life alone.
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Old 01-04-2014, 04:47 AM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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I haven't read past the first page but if there was never an exclusive talk and the OP wasn't exclusive with any of the women he was dating then I don't see the issue.

The people who are really into only having sex in the context of exclusive relationships confirm exclusivity before they have sex.
I agree with the sentiment in your first paragraph but I'm getting the vibe the OP is throwing BS around to the women making them think exclusivity is there. That I cannot support.
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Old 01-04-2014, 08:06 AM
 
Location: Europe
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You deserve to be miserable rest of your life. That is because of your lies and causing pain to women. You have to pay, that is only right thing to do.
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Old 01-04-2014, 08:26 AM
 
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Were you not hugged by your parents as a child?
Yes, I was. What does that have to do with this?

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Something is seriously wrong with you. Wow. 40 and still on a prowl...yuck.
I don't know where you people get the idea that just because one's 40, your life has to be boring to death. I know what I've done is not right but it doesn't mean my life has to become a homely routine.
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Old 01-04-2014, 08:29 AM
 
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What comes around goes around, you are reaping what you sow. You need to treat women nice and be good to them and grow up! your acting like some 20 year olds.
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Old 01-04-2014, 08:48 AM
 
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Women in their early 20's and late teens will date more casually and like the "bad boy" type.
They will more likely tolerate someone who doesn't have a job, sleeps around, does drugs, treats them terrible, and many more things. The only requirement is "hotness" and "coolness"

As you age, you will need a lot of money to attract the same type of woman. ( Charlie sheen is a good example of this type of guy... If he was a regular guy he would find it harder to "date") there is nothing sadder than a player who is in his 50's or 60's and has lost his mojo. You will find less "action" as you age. It's only natural. ( until you are elderly and in a home...there is a lot of sleeping around in retirement homes. It is eye opening when you have a relative in one of those places.)

Women in their later 20's and up have started to get a clue about relationships and less likely to tolerate this behavior. They aren't as casual about sex and want a real relationship.

I suggest you get into a swinging lifestyle. I personally find it disgusting, but it sounds right up your alley. That way you can have a relationship with action on the side. Please don't use prostitutes and always use protection.
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Old 01-04-2014, 09:08 AM
 
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"Open-minded"? Women do not owe you no-strings-attached sex!

Open-minded to what? Being lied to? Being cheated on? Being manipulated? Being infected with STDs? Being a single mother to an unwanted child by a deadbeat?
I don't have STDs. And you can call me everything but not a deadbeat father. That I surely am not.

I'm trying to gain the courage to apologise to my son's mother after "our complicated story". I never officially apologised to her.

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You think it's hard to attract women now? Just wait in a few years when your hair starts falling out. Have fun trying to convince women to have sex with your sorry butt. I hope you spend the rest of your life alone.
I know that, that's why I have plenty of other interests to keep myself busy as I grow older.
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